I'm poor, my family is loveless, I have panic attacks, my relatives (cousins) looks down on me, I always get rejected in love, my self-confidence is dead... ARGHH!
I FEEL SO PISSED! I JUST FEEL LIKE SHOWING ALL THOSE BAS-TARDS MY WORTH! DAMMIT! I'M SO PISSED! I MUST BE SUCCESSFUL, DAMMIT! ARGHHH!!!
2007-12-06 18:30:48 · 18 answers · asked by Johnny 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
My life is hell... my ex-crush played my feelings on Valentine's Day...
Others get to get things very easily when you try so hard...
DAMN THIS! THAT DOES IT!
2007-12-06 18:38:00 · update #1
It's never worth to be a nice guy.
It's never worth to spare feelings for certain people.
2007-12-06 18:41:38 · update #2
May all your dreams come true - success is always the best revenge!
2007-12-06 18:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by beffie 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad for being poor. Your family isn't loveless, they just fight all the time. You need too chill out a bit. Just shut your door turn on some music, and if you can find an outlet to express your feelings. I used to write poetry. My family was so poor I hated it and they were mean druggies. When I was depressed I wrote and it made me feel better. Oh and I am currently working on my bachelors with a 3.8 gpa. So I guess I showed all the people that didn't like my poor clothes in school. I make mad money, have my own life, still waiting on love, but no one is serious at this age it seems. Take care. Smile every chance you get.
2007-12-06 18:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, maybe the first thing you could do for yourself is see your doctor about the panic -- and get to the root of the problem in some sort of talk therapy treatment.
Next, tell the therapist about your loveless family and how people "look down" on you... and how you feel rejected and have a low threshold of self-esteem....
You can recover from this, but it takes effort and work on your part. Plus, it's difficult to face our pain. Sometimes we walk around with unresolved issues, and this is usually the root of problems and lack of confidence.
I hope you will consider getting some good help for yourself. You want to feel better, or you'd never posted here... and besides, you DESERVE to feel better..
What other people do or say doesn't matter as much as how you feel inside.
sending hugs
2007-12-06 19:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off you need to calm down! that is good that feel like you need to be successful, first you need school, anyone wanting to be successful in life for a long run needs school, try a vocational school. since you are low income you should check out financial aid. surround yourself with positivity, friends, co workers anything! all of the negative--leave it! dont pay any attention to it. if you can, lose contact for a while till you get yourself straight. go to the mirrior right now look into your own eyes and tell yourself you are a great person with a wonderful future and that you love yourself. write everyday of all the things you are grateful for, this will help you have a positive look on life and have more confidence in yourself that other people will see. If you want a change you have to start from within! do it now and your life will change for the better! good luck
2007-12-06 18:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by lukewarm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get in with a successful crowd if you're looking to be successful. Find yourself a job at a large financial institution, no matter what the position, because there you will find the ins and outs necessary.
2007-12-06 18:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Switch gears. Try new things meet new people. Don't stick around where you are unhappy unless you have to is my advice and sometimes even when you are stuck you might have to force yourself to do whatever it takes (borrow money, get a one way ticket, scrounge, quit ur job, join the military, change your major etc) to get out of a rut.
2007-12-06 18:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by Scientistical Academix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go do your thing man, use those feeling and your circumstances as motivation to be the best you can be no matter what you do. Because that way you will always be able to look back and be proud that you gave it your all and didn't slack.
2007-12-06 18:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by Ricardo P 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what your question is but don't worry so much about what other people think. If you believe you can make it you will find a way and then you can SHOW THEM!
2007-12-06 18:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Only You can Change Yourself! You can not control what others say or do, but you can change how you react to it!
2007-12-06 18:47:05 · answer #9 · answered by *~Sandra V~* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. Believe me.
2007-12-06 19:22:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋