Can you give me some encouraging words, and a prayer. I am feeling pretty down.?

Question

My daughter father and I are at it again.He is just an angry person, I hate for him to be angry.The only thing that helps me is reading something to lift my spirits.Also if you could please pray for us, and him as well, with his anger problems.I am at work, so I dont have a bible with me.Please write me some encouraging words, and pray for him and I.
Much appreciated

Oops, typing error, I am speaking about my daughter's father, not my own father.Sorry

Answer 1

think about how worse it could get. and think about bad things that happened to other people.then ud feel relieved its not u.

Answer 2

Do you mean your daughter's father? I am a little confused here.

From the sounds of that, you need to ignore the jerk. If you are still with him, leave. If you are not, stay away. Life is too short to deal with angry @$$holes. There just is no point. I used to hang around a few people who were angry for a long time. One was my brother. I have not seen any of them for over 10 years...including my brother...and I FEEL FANTASTIC! With no angry people in my life, I never have a bad day. Do not waste your emotion on anger and angry people. Love what you do or stop doing it.

whatever you do, do not read the Qu'ran like looking said. That book and Islam in general is evil. I have read the REAL version, not the softened version that they sell in America. It is hateful and evil. If you read it, you just might become as evil as your daughter's father.

Gastoune...why do you have so much hate in you that you would come on a board like this, read the request of someone who is hurting, and try to destroy that which they have faith in. Let me tell you something...There is a God, and there is a devil. And the devil is in you.

Answer 3

You could be in a worse position. Hopefully he's not violent. That's a good thing. Still together is a good thing. Being in love is a good thing. Think of your daughter. She's from the both of you two, I guess, so that's something good. It's going to be ok. Just look at what you got, and think of how some people don't have anything near as good as that, or how some have the violent, disrespectful man. Be blessed that it's still a good relationship. Arguments happen all the time. Cheer up :)

Answer 4

I'm assuming that your daughters' father and you are not together otherwise you would have called him your partner. I'm also assuming that he is only angry not physically violent.

If this is true then there is lots of room to work. First he needs to know that you hate it when he is angry... In his non angry times have you looked him in the eye and told him that.

Have you spoken to him about anger at any time?

Now this is a hard one, Have you honestly looked into yourself to see if any thing that you are doing may be triggering the outbursts?

I really hope this helps but with out more detail it is difficult to suggest more practical solutions.

It some times amazes me how God uses us to answer our own prayers if we don't loose heart.

Answer 5

I am very sorry to hear about your situation. I will pray and ask God to speak to your husbands heart. I pray God takes his anger and replaces it with joy, in HIM.

If you have a church home, can you get your hubby to go to counseling with the pastor? It seems to me that this would help him and improve your family relations.

Above all things...do not stop praying! The Lord God hears your prayers and they are not falling void upon HIS ears! He hears and when your husbands heart is ready, in God's perfect timing, I pray his heart will embrace God's love and use it as an example, towards his family!

Here are a few verses which may help. Psalm 145:13....The Lord is faithful to all HIS promises.
Proverbs 14:30....A heart of peace, gives life to the body.
Psalm 100:5....The Lord is good and His love endures forever!
Colossians 3:1......Set your hearts on things above.

I hope these speak to your heart as they do to mine. Know that I care and will be praying. You may e-mail me anytime you need or, want too!

If you want more scriptures...let me know!
God Bless you!
gail

Answer 6

Oh dear, how awful that your neighbors have been picking on you...I wonder if you would accept a prayer from me, a Wiccan? I shall pray that the Goddess give you the confidence you need to shine as strong as the Full Moon, and show those who have tried to bring you down that they can't hurt you. I pray that you have the strength to show the world how utterly beautiful and wonderful you really are. ....If you let me that is. :] I hope I haven't offended you, being of a different religion, but it really seemed like you needed words of kindness and I want to help.

Answer 7

So you prayed and it did not work dear ? Do you think that some people are better at praying than others ?
Do you believe that an invisible thing in the sky is watching you, listening yo you and influencing your life, more so if people you have never met silently talk in their heads about you ?

Please go see a psychiatrist as soon as possible and explain all that to him. He will be able to help you.

Answer 8

My Father has been an angry man all his life. You must try to search for the root of his problem and realize that something made him to be this way, even if he himself don't know what it is. Usually people who live their lives out in anger at everything have unresolved issues in their life and have never found a way to cope so they become permanently angry. My Father is a good man, for example, but he lost almost all of his hearing at age 19. He has remained angry at the world for 60 years and is now 84. I hate his anger also, but I understand now where it has come from and I have compassion for him. Your Father loves you, he just doesn't know how to show it the others do. And you will love yourself MORE for knowing that you love him in spite of all his flaws. God bless. I will pray for you and your family. I know where you are coming from. You are loved.

Answer 9

I'm not a religious person but i can say that when things just suck out loud all you have to do is remember an old disney movie.

hakuna matatta!
it means no worries. think about something that would make someone else happy and imagine how good you would feel if you were that person. know that youre an amazing individual that is capable of unceasing love in times of hardship.

i wont pray for you but i will be confidant in you. ill believe in you. as for your daughter. well. its what young girls do love. itll pass

Answer 10

I guess you would have prayed for your situation for awhile and things have not gotten better. I suggest if you have been baptized in the Spirit that you pray in tongues over your situation just I done for you all right now. Just as the Scriptures below testify when we pray in tongues or in the Spirit the Holy Spirit helps pray with groanings we cannot even utter but He will help us pray according to God's will and all things will work together for the good of your family.

Romans 8:26-28 Likewise the Spirit also helps us in our weaknesses. For we do not know what we should pray for as we ought, but the Spirit Himself makes intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered. Now He who searches the hearts knows what the mind of the Spirit is, because He makes intercession for the saints according to the will of God. And we know all things will work together for the good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.

So do not be anxious but pray in tongues until you have the peace of God that passes all understanding.

Philippians 4:6,7 Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your request be made known to God; and the peace of God, which passes all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.

May the blessings and peace of God be with you all. Amen.

Answer 11

i hope following words will help you these words are really good they had help me also to make change in my own life

Never search Ur Happiness in Others,
It will make U Feel Alone.
But,Search it in Urself
& U will feel Happy
Even when U are left ALONE.

u may find some1 who can heal ur pain.
If nobody is der 2 hurt u,
u will nvr know d importance
of person who cares 4u.

Whatever is in your past, whatever you have done...and the devil keeps throwing it up in your face (lying, debt, fear, hatred, anger, unforgiveness, bitterness, etc.)... Whatever it is.... You need to know that God was standing at the window and He saw the whole thing..... He has seen your whole life. He wants you to know that He loves you and that you are forgiven. He's just wondering how long you will let the devil make a slave of you. The great thing about God is that when you ask for forgiveness, He not only forgives you, but He forgets.....It is by God's grace and mercy that we are saved. Go ahead and make the difference in someone's life today.

Believe in your dreams and they may come true; believe in yourself and they will come true”.

I am Powerful

I am very powerful!
Whatever I set my mind on having, I will have.
Whatever I decide to be, I will be.
The evidence is all around me.
The power of my will has brought me precisely to where I am right now.
I have made the choices. I have held the thoughts.
I have taken the actions to create my current reality.
And I have the power to change it into whatever I want it to be.
With the choices I make, I am constantly fulfilling the vision I have for my life.
If that does not seem to be the case --
then I am deceiving myself about what I really want.
Because what I really, truly want, I will get!
What I truly wanted in the past, I already have.
If I want to build a billion-dollar business, I will take the actions necessary to do it.
If I want to sit comfortably watching TV night after night --
I will take the actions necessary for that.
Don’t be disappointed in my results --
they’re just the outward manifestation of my priorities.
I will be sure of what I truly want,
because I am sure to get it!

Some of the Inspiring Quotes which tell not to give up in life
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so you can learn something from these Quotes
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1.Always Keep the God's name on your tongque, Give more than your receive.

2.Love even those you recevie.
Love even those who hate you. Keep enough who hate you. Keep enough welath for your need but not for your greed.

3.Take care of every minute of your time. Make it a point to laugh everyday.

4.Be alaways child-like but never be childish.

5.Conquer anger Remember that God always gives you what you deserve but not what you desire.

6.Finally if you want to be happy, think of others and if you want to be miseable, think of yourself