when certain situations r out of ur hands and u feel helpless is there a prayer or do u guys have some good advice by God(Allah) cuz i know God is there and listens but i just feel sad and depressed there r a few people who r trying to frame me with lies and i dont want my marriage to break up cuz of their false lies due to them wanting us to break up? can u help with advice?
2007-12-06 17:45:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
well his mom and sis they r professional at lying crying and doing drama they want me out i really love him he loves me but he has bad ears when it comes to his mom and sisters he becomes blind thats how they raised him
2007-12-06 17:56:46 · update #1
I find something else to fiddle with.
2007-12-06 17:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont forget about god because if you believe then sometimes that is the biggest source of inspiration whether god is real or not. I know there is only so much god can do for you and some is in your own hands.the parts in your hands such as working on your marriage is something you need to do talk ot your husband about whats going on and let him know your sincere and honest and if he loves you he will trust you. Things will be ok
2007-12-07 01:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by hispregnantwife! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you pray to Allah, then you believe that everything happens according to his will, don't you? So pray for truth and justice to triumph, pray for the strength to deal with a bad situation, and pray for the ability to accept the outcome, whatever it is.
Have you heard the saying "G-d helps those who help themselves"? After praying for strength, you can help yourself by dealing with the situation. Go to your husband and ask him to work things out between the two of you, so that no one else's lies can break you apart.
May G-d bless you with peace of mind.
2007-12-07 02:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by SheyneinNH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When everything is out of your hands, that's exactly where God wants you to be.
You have no other choice but to surrender.
If you are innocent, rest in peace. God knows.
Don't get wrapped up in the drama.
Don't spin your wheels proclaiming your innocence.
Did Jesus freak out when they were leading Him to the cross?
Sometimes bad crap happens in life.
Doesn't mean God doesn't know or doesn't care.
Sometimes, bad crap has to happen in order for us to evolve.
2007-12-07 01:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want to you could ask god for help. But I dont think it will help. But when you feel like everything is out of control, see a psychiatrist or a therapist. They help if you really want the help.
2007-12-07 01:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by chizzle_30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm life is what you make of it, If you husband is dumb enough to believe lies over his own wife, then maybe your marriage wasn't strong enough to begin with. You see I live in reality, where I don't believe in an imaginary being to handle my problems. I am secure enough to realize that I am in control of most of my life and it is working out great so far.
2007-12-07 01:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by Pathofreason.com 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have faith. In youself, in your god, in your husband. Sometimes, when it's not in your hands, or not up to you... it might feel like the world is falling down. It never will fall down. You'll come out alright... because things will happen as they should.
2007-12-07 01:50:15 · answer #7 · answered by Bessma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.
Stop worrying about prayer, and start worrying about doing.
If these people are working in concert in falsehood to break up your marriage, it's time to start contacting a lawyer to start slander & libel proceedings against these people.
Prayer won't save your marriage.
2007-12-07 01:48:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Forget all about God and work things out for yourself.
2007-12-07 01:48:30 · answer #9 · answered by borsa 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if ur husband really loves you hel trust u and pay no attention to whhat every one els is saying... have faith and all will be ok
2007-12-07 01:49:19 · answer #10 · answered by Neto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋