I mean, everything was kewl. We hung out, we talked and I thought we really were on the same plane about a lot of things...and then I was checking out this person's Q&A, and I realized......
He's a FUNDIE!
As If I can't get over my addiction to saying silly fundie things, he's been enabling me... OMG, i don't know what to do! Since he's not the mean variety fundie that likes to bash my religion and anyone who isn't a fundie baptist like him, should I just forgive him and move on?
What would Jesus do? What would Chuck Norris say?
2007-12-06 16:45:25 · 19 answers · asked by Princess Ninja 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Chuck Norris would probably roundhouse kick him into the sun, twice. And with that he is getting off lucky.
2007-12-06 17:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by going postal 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Does being a best friend mean giving up ones own individuality ?
I have friends who hold opinions different from mine.
And since you say 'Since he's not the mean variety fundie that likes to....' shows that the individual is tolerant to the opinions you hold. Unless of course you have been slowly influenced to his way of thinking then the fault lies with your belief in your 'belief' system.
Anyhow if you think like feeling hurt and find it difficult to get over the hurt then the best thing is to move on, or develop tolerance towards his 'belief system' and carry on with the friendship provided the 'friendship' does not go beyond the logical and rational limits. If it does then you have to do some serious thinking and talking before the final leap to save yourself the trouble of regretting later.
2007-12-06 17:00:51 · answer #2 · answered by madhatter 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know, I know **cries**
And my pain is even bigger because he is my R&S husband and I didn't know this part of his life :'(
Jesus would tell him to stop being fundie and if he doesn't do what Jesus told him he will break my already broken heart again... and when someone breaks my heart Chuck Norris breaks their **beep**
2007-12-06 16:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Has he deliberately deceived you? If so, he isn't a "fundie" at all. Or he doesn't live his belief. How about having a serious conversation about what each of you believe.
2007-12-06 16:52:14 · answer #4 · answered by howdigethere 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have never been betrayed by my friends...just because your friend is a fundie doesn't mean that he betrayed you. did he lie about it? did he deliberately try to keep it from you?
one of my best friends is a christian, and we do have very similar views on a lot of things. nothing wrong with that.
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2007-12-06 22:51:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Jesus would forgive him and move. I don't know what Chuck Norris would say.
2007-12-06 16:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by Josh D 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying you can't be friends with a fundie? Search your heart and ask yourself why. Then consider who is the "open-minded" one.
2007-12-06 16:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by Last Ent Wife (RCIA) 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I'd feel, Oh, I don't know....
Betrayed?
What would Jesus do? Eat him.
Chuck norris? Kill him, with a swift kick to the throat.
2007-12-06 16:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
He just wants to be your friend because you're hawt! Let him hang around for the flattery.
2007-12-06 16:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This really reminds me of that song by Queen, you know that Rhapsody where it goes:
"Open your eyes, look up to the sky and seeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!"
2007-12-06 16:50:07 · answer #10 · answered by Shinigami 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋