so were both 19 @ different colleges, but we've been together for 4 ish years.. he has ocd adhd and depression, & his doc. put him on depression meds about a year ago.. after that he literally changed so much, was constantly bouncing off the walls, broke up w/ me and just seriously went insanely hyperactive..so idk i think he may be bipolar but that's a whole nother story in itself..anyways we did not talk for 10 months until before we both went 2 school (4 months ago) & i didnt want to get back w/ him but it sort of just happened and b4 i knew it we were a couple again..2 weeks ago he just avoided me & stopped talking to me and then 5 days ago he ended it..he told me he loves me, and then texted me yesterday 7 hours after i txted him saying hi, telling me that " i miss you haha" idk how thats funny but w/e & that "he's fine but everything reminds him of me"..but then he'll just stop talking to me..whats going on w/ him, i dont think hes on his meds, but like does he regret ending it?
2007-12-06 15:35:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I couldn't say without knowing him, but it sounds like he has a lot of the same issues that I deal with. I love a girl that I have broken up with a few times because of my own bipolar/ocd/adhd/depression problems... I spend a lot of time rethinking all my decisions, and I regret the things I let happen, and wish more than anything that she'd understand what I'm going through and would just forget about all the things I did when I wasn't thinking right. But to be completely honest, I don't know how much my mind is going to change tomorrow, and knowing that much, if I were to put myself in her shoes (or yours), I don't think I'd be able to be with somebody as unstable as myself. As much as I wish she would deal with my problems, it's unfair to expect her to.
I hope this helps... I just spent half an hour thinking about it. :-/
2007-12-06 16:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My best bet is that he's having the ups and downs from taking, or not taking his medicine. I work with a guy who can be that way. Sometimes he's a nice dude and other times he's bouncing off the walls acting like an idiot. He's manic depressive too. I don't think your ex is doing it intentionally, but it might just be the way he is. You knew him back in high school, is it something he would have done then?
2007-12-06 15:48:35 · answer #2 · answered by vgfreak77 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To put it bluntly, I would tell you to move on while you have the chance. When you have this disease it never stops. The ups and downs. The in and out of relationships-even your children if you decide to get together and have children. Trust me I have been through this time and time again and it can get tough. You have to be able to seperate the illness from the person no matter how much it hurts you. So you have to make up your mind, this is the beginning of a long game wich they thrive on. good luck!
2007-12-06 15:56:26 · answer #3 · answered by reeree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya know those meds just make us worse. they take all the thoughts that go thru our heads n make them worse than b4. then when someone like us does something bad they only talk bout the negative in us. I ditched the meds. I still do theropy but those meds was like a ticking time bomd in my head. now I dont recommed others ditching their meds. mayb he misses u mayb he dont. the one thing bout bipolar disorder is ..we always either second guess ourselves, or overthink things. mayb its for the best. why do u seem to care so much? could it b u want him back.
2007-12-06 15:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to go get checked for STD's since he is .. "seeing" others while "seeing" you. Move on too.. this guy is a loser. Ever hear the saying.. Have your cake and eat it too?
2016-03-15 08:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about the ex-boyfriend. Get a new boyfriend.
2007-12-06 15:53:23 · answer #6 · answered by thegreatone 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to sound harsh, but I think you do well to keep your distance. He has a lot of issues and you don't want to be dragged down by them.
2007-12-06 15:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If he is that mentally ill it wouldn't be wise to stay with him. You may be putting yourself in danger.
2007-12-06 15:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by J.M.W. 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋