hi all,
my ex and i broke up because he was always working and he never had time for me. we broke up about 2 years ago. after we broke up he would always keep in touch till this day. he calls me like every 3-4 weeks to see how i am doing? also, when he calls he wants to hang out and everytime i hang out with him we end up kissing (no sex) just kissing,,,so its not a booty call...im trying to figure him out..what does he want from?? does this make any sense at all?? cause im so confused as to why he hooks up with me when we hang out but we r not together...ive been dating other guys after him and i know that hes been dating other girls after me...i need help trying to figure this out??? im gonna ask him whats on his mind, but before i do this i just want everyones opinion...im curious
2007-12-06 14:48:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
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2007-12-06 14:53:48 · answer #1 · answered by Koral 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
There are some relationships that just wont work and even though both parties know that, once you put them together in a room there is no keeping them off each other! I bet most people have at least one previous relationship like that. Thats why those relationships usually get cut off eventually. Or else this is going to go on for who knows how long- until one of you finds "the one"? Its ok to do this, but just watch out because you could get your heart broken if he suddenly does find "the one" and you suddenly finding you have more feelings for him that you thought you did. Or vice-versa.
2007-12-07 04:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by fizzy stuff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut off the kissing and move on. If he didn't have time for you then, he won't have time for you now. Meet him for lunch or coffee in a public place if you feel the need to keep the friendship alive, but nix the hanging out at someone's house... you're just going to end up getting over-involved and hurt. Good luck!
2007-12-06 22:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by alurllyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lose him, he calls you once in a while because he knows your there waiting by the phone for him, he may love you but than again, you may have become just filler for the times hes alone, thats not love thats convince. Do yourself a favor and stop answering the phone. I speak from experience.I had the same thing going on for about 4 years. It never changes your always that girl he calls when hes bored or has no one else to go to, and its not in a good way either
2007-12-06 23:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by Emily N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all depending on how long you dated to begin with. If over a year or two, then obviously a friendship and closeness exists.
It seems neither of you have found another person too move in with. Believe me if he found another girl to take your place, you will no longer be receiving phone calls.
If he wants you back, he would have said so. So maybe he thinks that one of these days you will give up the poon tang.
2007-12-06 22:57:47 · answer #5 · answered by Asian Mami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am sure you still love your boyfriend that's why despite both of you seeing other people you still hang out and all. Perhaps that goes with your ex also. I really can't reason for your boyfriend's actions. Really, don't speculate reasons just go ahead and ask him in the first place both of you had once became "we".Good luck...
2007-12-07 00:05:14 · answer #6 · answered by Snowy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he still likes you and might not know how to go about trying to get back together. why don't you ask him in between the lip smacking next time you are together?
2007-12-06 22:53:21 · answer #7 · answered by Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same reason you are kissing him back.
2007-12-06 22:53:05 · answer #8 · answered by Peggy Pirate 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is the 4th time you have asked us ask him!
2007-12-06 23:02:56 · answer #9 · answered by Sazzy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's probably lonely and you're comfortable.
2007-12-07 11:41:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋