no way to forget. i cry badly everyday, i get mad. i cant do anything. never get another dog again. the love he had for me. everything was done at 2 : we played at 2 in the sun, sharing all the good food, lying on the floor grabbing each other, sleeping side by side. i can mimic his barking, he also listened to our music . How can i continue my road without him
2007-12-06 14:07:20 · 6 answers · asked by allmyluv2u 1 in Pets ➔ Dogs
I am so very sorry that you lost your very special dog.
I sincerely hope that you can find some comfort in knowing that myself, and many others of us 'animal lovers', feel so strongly like you do about our dogs. Losing our beloved companions is so very hard on all of us. We really do know how you feel. My heart goes out to you!
Many people like you and I, who are very passionate about our canines, know how difficult it is to be in your situation. Dealing with your loss of your loving pet is harder than people think.
When it comes to "sad moments" about your faithful friend, maybe one these things will help also:
-Try to think of all the good times you had playing together and how happy YOU made your dog feel.
-Try to think about how important YOU were to your dog, and how pleased he was that YOU were the one person in the world that took such good care of him.
-Know that he felt just as strongly about his bond with you.
-Believe that saying: "All dogs go to heaven!" I believe it!
-Believe that when you think of 'your dog in heaven', he is sitting right next to MY dogs who are already there. I'm sure THEY will be great "buddies" in heaven together! My dogs WILL take care of your friend now that he is there!
I hope this note, and the notes from the other answerer's for your question, may give you some peace.
Remember this when you are sad: My wonderful dogs are looking out for, and taking care of, your dog in heaven right now, and HE is sitting next to them smiling down at YOU!
2007-12-09 23:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by big dog lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok... this helps me when someone close to me passes away.
Imagine you are passed away and looking down on your dog (who hasn't gone yet)... You see your dog lying there day after day, not eating, but whining for you. But you can't go back to help him, you just get to watch him. He misses you. An won't move much at all. Only to go into another room when a light goes out or he hears something strange. But he doesn't get excited anymore. He isn't living at all, just exsisting.
If your dog was looking down at you now... would you want him to see how miserable you are? You should not feel bad about missing your dog, those feelings are normal. But you have to go on with life.... and maybe give another dog a chance to be as happy as your other dog was with you.... plus it will make you smile a little more. But no dog could ever take that other dog's place in your heart... :*( I've felt this way too.... I hope you will recover from losing him.... time will heal... memorys won't fade (he'll be with you forever in that way).
2007-12-06 14:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by get_it_right 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok. If i'm examining this good, you're going off for a visit, for 10 days, leaving your Rottie X returned residing house with mum. once you come back returned she'll bear in strategies you - 10 days is not any time. although, then you definitely say mum is going in a foreign country (to stay, completely?) and you will stay with dad who has a dogs who won't settle to your Rottie X? wherein case, your dogs is going 'interior the kennels'? is this a lasting rehoming ingredient, or merely yet another holiday, your mum this time? if so, and it is in uncomplicated terms a visit and he or she'll be returned so which you will bypass returned to stay together with her and have your dogs returned....... then no agonize - she will bear in strategies you ok. otherwise, if this might properly be a rehoming, it is far extra powerful to your dogs to bypass to her new proprietors, and get on together with her new existence. She'll in all probability bear in strategies you ought to you meet returned interior the destiny, although.
2016-10-01 01:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by beisch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is painful sometimes. Accept that, and don't deprive yourself of another animal's love just because you're hurting now. And think of all the wonderful animals that need homes, they're waiting at the pound to be rescued. It's not about how bad you hurt, it's about enjoying life, and helping others.
2007-12-06 14:16:58 · answer #4 · answered by cardsharque 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Aw, Honey!
Sweetheart, it is natural to miss a friend, whether of the two-footed or four-footed persuasion. So go ahead and cry.
But remember that your dog loved you too- and would not want you to be unhappy for the rest of your life. Just go one day at a time, and let the rest take care of itself.
Feel better.
2007-12-06 14:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by Tigger 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Aww sorry about your furry friend. I remember when my pet passed and I was very upset for many days, you always have memories and think that your pet is in a very good place. You can never forget, just think of the great memories you both shared. :)
2007-12-06 14:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋