My Parents are freakes and they are from a diffrent contry and they dont knwo the customes from america they are over controleign i need to lie every time i step food out the house it angers me. i was wonedering what i should do about this i tryed tlakin to them when i say im going to the library tthey allways suspect that im haveing sex. I have a bf and hes always trying to pressure me into haveing sex no way is that in my mind. My parents dotn know i have a bf but my mother is catching on and if i get her mad she will tell my dad and i wont be here to read your ansers. well thank you
2007-12-06 13:45:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Lets talk about america's customs hon.Girls your age see a guy who is "hot" they are fortunate enough to be attractive enough to get his attention by appealing to his sexual desires, they start dating have sex right away whether they mean to or not, get pregnant get dumped and raise a bay without a husband to help them or father for their baby, OR they find out after sex he is a druggie or an alcoholic and worthless and abusive.THIS is our custom and your parents do NOT want you practicing it hon.
The fact he is trying to pressure you into sex tells me thats ALL he wants from you and as soon as he figures out he isnt going to get sex, he WILL dump you and if he DOES get sex he will STILL dump you.
Listen to your parents on this, they are smarter than most of us Americans.They care about you and love you.
2007-12-06 13:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have boy friend! So u don't need to lie to ur parents. Don't think that nobody know that what we r doing. They will find if we acting different not like as before when u doesn't have bf.
May they r found and believes that u have bf so its very common to have doubts. Don't blame ur parents they r doing right job as ur parents.
So u just tel them the truth and u don't have any other connections with him honestly.. They will trust u sure !!!
2007-12-06 22:03:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They only care, don't lie though if you get in trouble oh, well it's not the end of the world. Remember you are going to have kids one day, try and put yourself in their shoes.
2007-12-06 21:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by 420 4' LIFE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit lying to your parents. You don't need to do the things they forbid you to do while living under their roof, you just want to do them. So just abide by their rules until you eventually move out and then do as you please. This is only part of your life right now, so get over it.
2007-12-06 21:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that before you go insulting your parents you should spend more time in school learning how to spell and speak.
keep your pants on before you wind up pregnant.
2007-12-06 21:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you wouldn't lie to them maybe they wouldn't need to be overcontrolling or lacking of trust.....
2007-12-06 21:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Useless Knowledge 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋