I decided a long time ago to wait until I'm married to have sex. I am still going to stick with that promise. However, I am in a serious relationship with a man I love and things have really heated up. He respects my decision to wait and always tells me to let him know if he's going to far. The thing is, I'm enjoying the time we spend together but I'm not sure if I'm going to far. He recently started fingering me. And it's not that I don't like it, I do. I know I'm still technically a virgin, but am I wrong to let him do this? Also, how far do you think a person should go if they are waiting til marriage for sex?
2007-12-06 13:43:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you? And if you want to have sex so badly but not til ur married you should like wait till your 20 or 21.
2007-12-06 13:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on your reasons for abstinence. IF its for religious and moral reasons then yes you have gone too far because the put of Gods restrictions is the principle of the matter more than the act, but dont go any farther God will forgive. If it is for science reasons such as preventing STD, Pregnancy, etc then technically no you havent gone too far. You should ask why you are waiting and examine the consequences of your actions and possibly hypocrisy.
2007-12-06 13:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bermuda , Atlantic City.. I'm from NYC and it is the best place to be so many different cultures, people things to see and i hope when you come here in 2 yrs you will have a great time
2016-05-21 22:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you already said, you are technically not a virgin since you did not have intercourse and I too want to wait till I am married. However, you can try mutual masterbation, where your bf fingers you and you give him a handjob. That way you both can be sexually satisfied w/o having actual sex. =]
2007-12-06 13:50:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to keep your virgin promise, I think you'd better keep out of this relationship and keep single until you are going to marry. Also, you can get more good ideas from Agelessmatch.com.
2007-12-06 13:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rub 2 sticks together long enough you'll get as fire and you'll be pregnant hon.Your playing with fire.Emotions and hormones cloud one's judgment.Try not to go that far if you can help it.Gte to know him well in the next yr or so.
2007-12-06 13:50:40 · answer #6 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's really depends on why you are waiting.. if you are waiting because you are a christian/catholic then you should back away from what you have been doing but that's a personal choice. now if you are just wanting to keep your virginity then you can do everything outside of intercourse.
2007-12-06 13:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by CaliOutCast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't wait til i was married to have sex... How do you know you'll enjoy him. I ain't buying a car til i test drive it. And you better hear me and hear me good.
2007-12-06 13:52:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you havent gone to far i believe that sex is sex and the rest is foreplay, this will keep things intimate between use without axctually having sex
2007-12-06 13:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with so many girls that said they were going to do that and then we ended up having sex. Some of them even ended up having sex with my friends while I was dating them. I never trust a girl that says she's saving herself.
2007-12-06 13:47:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋