i need a good excuse. i cut my self afew times on purpose. stupid know. but i totally looks like i cut myself too. i cant cover it up anylonger and its all side my side evenly so i need a good excuse for why its there. besides i cut myself. cause i have to go to a sport thing where i have to wear a tshirt and my parents are bound to see it. and they would get so mad and concerned. what can i say i cut it on. or what can i say happened. if not what can i use to clear it or cover it up within like a day. i cant wear a sweater or a tshirt. im so scared. help!
2007-12-06 13:35:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
you could say you got cut jumpin a fence or a cat scratched you or...you could tell them the truth...or a staple...that happened to me once lol
please answer my deja vu question
thanks
2007-12-06 14:06:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would consider going to your parents before hand and telling them the truth..
do you cut yourself a lot? if so.. maybe you should start alternatives.. for example wearing a rubber band or hair band on your wrist all the time.. when you feel the need to cut, snap the band instead.. you could also draw read lines on your skin rather than actually cutting..
throw away the object(s) you use to cut.. get them out of the house as to avoid temptation..
it's never a good thing to cover up a problem with an excuse.. be honest.. it's the smart and adult thing to do.. and you'll be better in the end for it.. explain to them why you did it.. and consider going to therapy.. specifically cognitive behavioral therapy..
cutting is a serious condition and it can consume your mind and scar your body.. so getting the proper help is essential..
i hope this helps..
2007-12-06 21:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cutting is a serious problem. You may just want some attention,or crying out for help..but it all comes down to one thing. You have a vein in your wrist,and if it gets cut open..you'll bleed to death. You need to tell someone,so they can get you good help. This isn't healthy and you don't need to apply make up or whatever else to hide it. They will eventually find out,it's just a matter of time.. whether that means you'll be dead,or they'll just see it one day when you least expect it.
2007-12-06 22:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of trying to cover it up.... you need to tell someone. Why wouldn't you want people to be concerned for you? Cutting yourself is a cover up for something very painful to you. If there are people out there who love you.. they'll want to know. Maybe you could tell them before you go so that they know what they'll be expecting... Please get some help. Talk to someone. There is no reason for you to be doing this to your self. If you need someone to talk to, I'm here too...
2007-12-06 21:45:15 · answer #4 · answered by Meaghan H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please tell them the truth. They won't be mad. They'll be shocked and surprised but they love you and want the best for you. If you can't talk to them because the cause of this is abuse or neglect from your parents please talk to a councellor ASAP. Taking either step can get free of this self-destructive behavior and the feelings that cause you to do it. You can also free yourself from feeling like you have something to hide. There is nothing like being free from hurting yourself physically to get through emotional pain or anger.
Good luck-hurt and anger are tough but you can get through it.
2007-12-06 21:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know I know, you`ve heard this line before, but listen to it differently this time..."Cutting is a cry for help"..right?..so you cut yourself AGAIN & now you dont want it to be seen?...maybe it`s a good thing that it WILL be?!..you cant hide it my friend!!..go,it will be seen,the yelling or crying will happen etc...but maybe THIS time,you will get the help you seek/need/want/DESERVE/...my love to you....
2007-12-06 21:43:42 · answer #6 · answered by Doctor Fill 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This site has a lot of useful links:
http://www.christiananswers.net/q-eden/cutting.html
Also, consider giving this number a call...
Self Harm Hotline
1-800-DONTCUT
Help for "cutters"
2007-12-08 13:57:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No "excuses" my friend, time to fess up and get some help before you really do some major damage to yourself.
2007-12-06 21:50:32 · answer #8 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
makeup
but i think you need help, and the best way to get help is being accountable... tell a person that can help you
2007-12-06 21:44:46 · answer #9 · answered by andrestorres12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have issues, get treatment tonight.
2007-12-06 21:38:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋