if I ask for it, I appreciate it..
If it's usefull, I use it
But if someone tries to force it down my throat I resent it..How about you?
2007-12-06 12:56:34 · 16 answers · asked by Raven 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
What are you saying? You think I'm fat don't you?
2007-12-06 13:01:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on a number of things: for example, whether the person knows me and what's going on well enough to offer an informed opinion. My sister-in-law is famous for offering 'constructive criticism' when she hasn't got a clue about what I'm actually doing.
And I prefer constructive criticism when I'm prepared for it, not when it's sprung on me from out of nowhere. I hate it when I have no warning before the topic of discussion shifts to something that I may be sensitive about.
As any woman over the age of 50 (and those around them) could tell you, offering 'constructive criticism' to a menopausal female is a dicey business at best. On a good day, we may accept it with a smile. On a bad day (which is roughly 99.99 out of every 100 days), that same constructive criticism could be grounds for ax-murdering the person offering it!
2007-12-06 13:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfeblayde 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go along with all of those. If it's "forced down my throat", I'll still try to evaluate it objectively, but the resentment is definitely there.
2007-12-06 13:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eh, it always stings a little. I have a little smile on my face because I know I don't want to be that person who can't take criticism, but honestly, who likes to be told there's something negative about them or what they're doing? No one! That doesn't mean I lash out at the person giving it or don't take it into consideration, but I sure don't ever like it :)
I like the way you put it, as well. Seems a bit like me, too.
2007-12-06 13:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sensitive and my self esteem is low, so constructive criticism is difficult for me to handle. But if it helps me to be a better person, then I do appreciate it.
2007-12-06 13:01:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the outcomes of "useful" are many. i will cope with an smart individual making a calculated grievance of me in the event that they have some genuine perception into the situation. yet to have some moron chastise me or criticize the way I stay or the flaws i %, properly that merely pisses me off... you will choose an extra straightforward time managing grievance in case you think approximately the source extra...
2016-10-01 01:15:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with you 100%
2007-12-06 12:59:56 · answer #7 · answered by :) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is, can constructive criticism handle me?
2007-12-06 13:02:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Same here, if it is presented in a polite way, then I will take it in the spirit that it was given.
2007-12-06 13:11:13 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always and everywhere.
Oh. Except the golf course. Then you could get a five-iron wrapped around your neck.
2007-12-06 13:00:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
same here. but it burns me up hoe self centered a lot of Christians are, i didnt believe they acted that way till I got on here.
2007-12-06 12:59:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋