So am I to believe that 99% of women find it completely out of the question for a guy to grow up, and stop cheating? Do you all really believe that guys are that bad? Hvent you ever heard the saying " You never know what you have 'till it's gone."?
Or is everyone out here self-rightous and pessimistic? Honestly...
2007-12-06 11:11:51 · 5 answers · asked by A.K.A.Allen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I am sure that it is not out of the question. I know plenty of guys who played around while they were young, but when they were ready--made excellent husbands. I do, however think that it is unfair to keep a woman from moving on because you didn't realize what you had. If she has found someone that she is happy with--or is content being alone, then give her that space. It's going to take time for her to trust anyone who has hurt her and lied several times in the past. You just have to prove that you really have changed.The best way a man can show how much he has grown up is to understand this and allow her all the time she needs--after all, it wasn't her that screwed up.
2007-12-06 11:22:14 · answer #1 · answered by Joi J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm gonna go out on a whim here. Cheating doesn't define the guy as bad. In my oppinion, in which no other girl will probably agree with me, I say go cheat. Because obviouly the other girl got something I dont.
I can accept cheating up to a point. If you have a reason fo why you did it so be it. As long as it isn't "Well I wanted to have fun", "I was horny", or "I wasn't thinking".
As long as you have a believable reason. I can deal.
So no, cheating doesnt make you a horrible, terible person.
2007-12-06 19:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
I'LL HAVE YOU KNOW THAT I KNOW ON WHAT SIDE MY BREAD IS BUTTERED, and furthermore, i know mine outlets are proper , and my home is hotwired, i have all the major appliances. , but no reliances....would you help me please....i smoke fillup morris...a treat..not a treatment....cut the platitudes..i know what i have and it aint gone.
2007-12-06 19:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by MARY S 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior.
2007-12-06 19:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by Bette 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think that a guy who cheats once may not necissarily cheat again.......but there's a big chance he will.
2007-12-06 19:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by YearoftheRat 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋