Me and my twin are adopted and had a question about how do u people that are feel about it. She my sis went to a camp with tons more adoptees and now is more secure about it. you don't have to answer but i just wanted to know how others felt. Well thanks in ahead!
2007-12-06 10:56:44 · 13 answers · asked by nikeluver359 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adoption
I feel WONDERFUL about it! Loved, blessed and very thankful b/c if I wasn't, I know for fact (long story) that I would have been abused emotionally, physically and sexually. So for me going to a loving home where those things were not prevelant IS THE BEST THING THAT HAS EVER HAPPENED TO ME!!! I will be forever thankful.
2007-12-06 12:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by Lil Momma 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
My feelings about being adopted have changed many times throughout my life.
I just wish someone else had told me that that was OK - and I am allowed to feel whatever I like.
So - I'm telling you that also.
You don't have to feel like everyone else.
I find writing really helpful - I have a blog. Writing - and reading other blogs - and talking with other adoptees - have all been very healing for me. No other people can understand as well as those that have experienced what it feels to be adopted.
Here's a link to a whole heap of adoptee blogs -
http://www.adultadoptees.org/forum/index.php?topic=2805.0
Drop me a line if you ever need to chat.
2007-12-06 12:26:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
ok when i was younger, my parents lost their rights so i got adopted by my grandparents. Next, my step bro. and sisters have been adopted by my grandparents as well (same mother different dad. ) i feel ok. but its crazy when people ask why dont we live w/ our mom and dad.
2007-12-06 11:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by Loki'sMadness 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that its cool that u were there with other people who are adopted, thats a way to make new friends, i am sorry that i am not much help, i am not adopted, i am sorry and i feel sorry for u and ur sister
2007-12-06 11:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by wildride07 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋
I think adoption is wonderful. My husband's step-brother and his wife adopted 2 Korean girls a few years apart. The oldest one was in a Russian orphange and near death. The other they adopted directly from Korea. Those girl's lives were changed for the better by adoption. My Ex-brother in law was adopted also. His real mom could not provide for him so she did the best thing for him.
2007-12-06 11:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 2⤊ 5⤋
I'm not sure what you are asking?
Are you asking how we feel about twins?
How we feel about adopting twins?
????
Regardless of what we feel, it's what you feel inside. If you are feeling insecure for any reason, talk with your parents about it first. If you still feel terribly insecure perhaps counceling would be a path to take.
2007-12-06 11:01:34 · answer #6 · answered by ~BluemoonAngel~ 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋
It depends on the day, and even the moment.
But I definitly encourage you to feel what you feel- not what you think you should feel or what other people shove down your throat that you should feel.
2007-12-06 12:52:59 · answer #7 · answered by Emma523 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
we adopted our son at birth...he's only 4, but i can't imagine having a stronger bond with any child. we love him more than it seems possible! we are fortunate to have family and friends that are adopted or adopted themselves so he is surrounded by others who he can relate to. adoption is the best thing we ever did!
2007-12-06 11:47:00 · answer #8 · answered by Butterfly heart 4 · 2⤊ 4⤋
read some adoptee blogs
2007-12-06 11:02:59 · answer #9 · answered by Adoptionissadnsick 4 · 5⤊ 2⤋
I feel great I'm adopted as well
2007-12-06 10:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 4⤋