O.K. so theres this boy that i grew up with & i also dated him for two years & now we have been broke up for about a month but im reallly starting to misss him & i dont know what to do because i see him alll the time I have him in three classes at school & i see him at lunch & i see him everywhere & i miss him & sometimes i just feel like crying at school & i want to act like it doesnt even bother me but i see him talking to alll these other girls & i try to talk to other boys to keep my mind off of him but it doesnt work what should i do.....? well my friend told me to tell him how i feel but then at school he would be like HAHA i knew she would want me back and he would just be mean to me but i really do love him but i dont know what to do....what should i do...?
2007-12-06 09:38:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, I sympathize with you on your pain of the end of a two year romance, especially when you also grew up with the person. However, it would have been a little bit easier to advise you if you had mentioned why you both broke up and why you feel he would be mean to you if you let him know your feelings.Right now I can see only two possible paths for you.1)Take a chance and speak to him;he may laugh at you and be mean like you feel he will or he may surprise you by doing or saying something good that you were not expecting2)This second choice is the hardest and it means ending it with him completely or at least waiting for him to approach you first.This may or may not happen.Because I know you love him and you are now very miserable without him, I will suggest you try the number one solution and see what happens.The fact that he can be mean to you because you miss him after being together for two years makes me truly feel you should do the second.What ever you decide to do, I wish you the best, and please let me know how you are doing.
2007-12-06 13:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bet he misses you too. talk to him. but not in school, and in private, so you can just talk together and not worry abiut other people listening in. good luck =)
2007-12-06 17:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋