He has admitted (no, actually, I found out because of my superior intellect and deductive powers) that he is one whole year older than he initially told me.
Should I leave him immediately and run off with Robert C (who fancies me like mad).
Please help. Nothing like this has ever happened to me before and I don't know what to do :-(
2007-12-06 09:36:28 · 24 answers · asked by Ms Minger 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Philip - is that why you're here then? For points? Deary me. Well, it's your, er, life....
2007-12-06 09:44:51 · update #1
he may lie but atleast he loves you,
2007-12-06 20:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i know how u feel..betrayed right? What is going through your mind is...if he lyed about this, what else has he or will he lie about. The thing is though you have to ask yourself will you ever forgive him? If not move on now..dont delay or give each of you false hope. That just doesnt work..trust me. Ive just found out that my bf (ex now) has been cheating on me the past 18months of our 3 1/2 yr relationship. I couldnt forgive and had to move on and now i think i have found love again. If you cant go back to the man that you love giv robert c ago if you want to...but make sure you are. Dont rush things...and make sure you definalty want to break up with your man first. Theres nothing worse then making the wrong descison.
Goodluck...x :) x
2007-12-06 10:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by jules W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, to be trustworthy, do no longer you think of it's time to chop back him and locate somebody who could have a significant dating with you? you have caught him mendacity and cheating on you 4 cases....the 1st time i'm able to verify the variety you ought to forgive that, yet after the 2d time is the place you draw the line..This guy is by no skill gonna inform you the certainty and except you get a backbone and tell him to get misplaced, it somewhat is gonna be like this in the process the full dating. and you could wager that he lied approximately no longer having intercourse with any of those human beings...He admits that he has a sexual habit of a few form. meaning he desires some expert help, and you're in far greater than your head. you are the fallback dating, and he's conscious of which you would be around while it somewhat is pleased with him, or while he desires you..What approximately what you like? while are you going to place your self first? you will by no skill understand for specific if he's not assembly those human beings for intercourse considering the fact which you're 4 hundred miles away. you're taking his be conscious for it, and from what you have published, it would not recommend squat..he's like the thief who isn't sorry that he stole some thing, he's sorry that he have been given caught. lady, you're a tactics removed from him, so enable him bypass and get accessible in Philly and locate somebody who will positioned you first and knows what they want.
2016-10-10 10:18:20 · answer #3 · answered by cardejon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he would be better without you. Since he probably is not a complete jerk towards Americans and lets a WEB SITE change his opinion about a whole country.
I don't think that is a big deal a whole YEAR OLDER?!?! So what?
It sounds like you just want a reason to break up with him so you can run off with Robert C. You don't want it to be his fault so you pick up the dumbest reason you can to break it off.
2007-12-06 12:29:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, what a pickle deary. Leave the ratbag and marry Robert C =) x
2007-12-06 09:42:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
All the better, it's a well known fact that men die younger than women, so you get to collect the old life insurance a whole year earlier. Or perhaps your amour is a keen canoeist
2007-12-06 11:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by reggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A whole year of lyes?? thats a long time. I would leave him, you dont want to be with someone who you cant trust. When you love someone and they claim they love you back, the first most important thing is trust, you should be able to tell each other EVERYTHING
2007-12-08 05:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by Lily B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like u love him anymore, otherwise u wouldn't even think about running off wiv the other guy...
There is NO relationship without Trust/Love. Leave him immediately. Go where ur heart takes u...
2007-12-06 09:49:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Crispy is the only one that understands you (and 'does it' with the same great dane as you do).
Don't leave him, age is not as important as love. Robert C has nothing compared to Crispy.
2007-12-06 10:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's the most outrageous deceitful trick i have ever heard of, the cad! you must pack HIS bags from the top window immediately, the bounder! then go straight to the police station and have him charged, charged i tells ya, with gross mental abuse and wilful deceit which may lead to a breach of the peace [ or his anyway], our deepest sympathy in this your darkest hour.
2007-12-06 10:13:41 · answer #10 · answered by andy F7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on his motives. Age isn't really a big deal and if you truly love him then talk it through. It also depends on what you feel about and know of Robert C.
2007-12-06 09:46:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋