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2007-12-06 09:06:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
She is just confirming the fact that you are correct.
2007-12-06 09:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
a) never call her that again. ever. even if it's true. yeah, some people are indeed like that; don't say it. try not to even think it.
b) if you do think it, you should break up with her and thus spare her time and yours.
c) get out a stereo, stick in the cd "A Hangover You Don't Deserve" by Bowling For Soup, and play track ten for her. because you are just an ------- sometimes.
d) or do something cheesey and nauseating.
when you do apologize, don't use pet names within the apology. say her name. using pet names will only make your apology seem less sincere.
2007-12-06 09:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That depends on whether or not her behavior deserved it.
If she really WAS being a *****, then don't apologize, but consider breaking up with her. If she really WASN'T, then apologize and try not to do it again.
Either way, it might be best to reflect on the incident and explore why you called her a ***** in the first place. Figure out together if it's something that you're willing to work on or if it's something that you're okay with being a part of your relationship.
2007-12-06 09:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it were me then flowers, a nice dinner that you cooked yourself and a very big heartfelt apology along with a promise it will NEVER happen again (and make sure it doesn't! I assume you didn't really mean it or why would you be with her and/or want to put this right.)
Of course it's not me, you know what your girlfriend really likes, so follow the above with whatever she likes instead of the flowers and dinner. To me, it's not about you throwing money around to fix it but a gesture that is from the heart.
If she really loves you she will forgive you and if not you may have to accept she wasn't right for you.
2007-12-06 09:19:48 · answer #4 · answered by pinkgerbera 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Reflect on the way she is behaving and the cause of you using that particular descriptor and work out if that behaviour is something you want to deal with in the long term. If you still want her apologise and spend some cash on her and if you dont then advise her that her behaviour was unacceptable and you want nothing more to do with her...
2007-12-06 09:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by zappafan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ive had 3 gf cheat on me...ive purely had 3 :( yet that placed me off relationship your question is what identity do...i blocked off all touch from them and im now a happy single dude p.s i in no way gave em any reason to cheat on me, thier excuse replaced into it only got here approximately or it replaced into the 2d
2016-12-10 14:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to apologize with flowers and really mean it!
Although I am sure she will get over it, or she will call you a name and then you can call it even. Hang in there and don't do it again, and if she jokes around and calls herself one, dont' agree with her, ever!
2007-12-06 12:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by Reba 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sincerely apologize. If you mean it then she should accept your apology. If you're just looking to fix this because you want sex or just want things to be okay again and you don't regret what you did then you should save her the time and break up with her. Only apologize if you mean it. Otherwise, she'll get to see what you're actually like and know if you're worth keeping or not.
2007-12-06 09:58:41 · answer #8 · answered by Rockit 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Say you're sorry. If it was an accident or in the heat of the moment, I'm sure she'll forgive you. We're all guilty of hurting a loved one's feelings (we aren't perfect).
It's how you react after saying something, that's makes a difference.
2007-12-06 09:12:26 · answer #9 · answered by J'adore 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Say you meant she was "acting like a B" not that she "was a B". Thats how my husband gets out of it.
2007-12-06 10:10:23 · answer #10 · answered by Carimel 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Call off the wedding.
2007-12-06 09:27:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋