ok so i asked a few months ago how i could get this guy to hookup with me again, and now im about to... well im thinking about it. how do i let him know that i want to be more than just a hookup like i want us to start dating and him be my boyfriend. I kno that i can make him like me, but how do i word it? what should i say exactly or hint at it without creeping him out because as of right now im just an easy hookup when my parents arent home. and im really unsure too because he broke up with his girlfriend of like one month about a little over a month ago after we had hookuped for the first time but he told her he wasnt ready for another relationship (he went out with this other girl for 8 months and they broke up in august) PLEASE HURRY I NEED TO KNOW NOW!
2007-12-06 08:52:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell him you are more than that and you want something than just hookup whenever he wants to
2007-12-06 08:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just stop seeing him. Clearly you can't resist him so you won't be strong and say no, and you'll just get more and more upset the more you see him. Give it a couple of months and just tell him you want a relationship. Say that it was a mistake to hook up (but you did enjoy it), but you just want something more. He's just using you because he can, and thinks it's ok since you're not speaking up. These casual encounters are only fine if both people are happy with the situation, and you're clearly not.
2007-12-06 09:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 10:49:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your both too young for dating and sex. Think about this.... what if you got pregnant? How would your friends and family would think about that. There will always be boys in your life no need to " settle " down with anyone person at this stage in your life.
2007-12-06 09:04:52 · answer #4 · answered by plg19632000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
StinaG, Hon just be totaly honest and speak straight from your heart !
2007-12-06 09:00:13 · answer #5 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its kinda soon.. so just kinda wait it out and then when you guys hang out more, you should just be straight forwad about it and tell him.. because guys cant read your mind lol
2007-12-06 09:02:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋