Do you think "love" (or what high schoolers call love) in high school is superfluous, or could it be be real? Just wondering what you all think.
2007-12-06 08:52:28 · 16 answers · asked by Chase 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could be real, but it depends on their love for each other, is it fake or real?
-HeartBrokenForever (Diane N)
2007-12-06 08:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Hey well it could be real. It depends on what you think about it. If you think that you are going to be with this guy for the rest of your life and you want to have a future with him it could be real. But if you think "oh well i'm just going to dump him once i go to college" then no. But i mean most of the time it isn't love because you go to different college's then barely ever talk and always are worrying if they are cheating on you or not and stuff like that and then you eventually break up! hope i helped bye Cherry
2007-12-06 09:00:09 · answer #2 · answered by Cherry 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that for the most part it is not real love, but everyonce in a while one might get lucky and actually fall in love. i dont think that teenagers should look for lifelong love in that matter at that age because they could hinder themselves from other experiences if they are to obsessed with it.
i met my wife while we were both in high school and so far it has been amazing.
2007-12-06 08:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I tend to think that most people my age are not in love, but I'm hypocritical because I say I (and do) love my boyfriend. I consider myself mature for my age with a mature relationship though, while a lot of kids just hook up and say ZOMGZzZ WE R BEING IN LUUUVVZZZ.
And it's just not.
2007-12-06 08:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by lovebird25 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in high school and i think part of it is just lust... the pressure to be with someone just because everyone else is.. that is DEFFINITLY THERE... however it could be real love... one of my middle school teachers got married my freshman year to her 6th grade boyfriend... so it could and can not be it just depends... for me i think it will be real... since i am so hard to please and have so many expectations...if he can be everything i want it will DEFFINITLY be love <-- lol
2007-12-06 09:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by stayinclassy101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes me and my husband met when we were in high school times. and we are still in love like never before.
High school love is very possible. rare but absolutely possible.
2007-12-06 09:24:39 · answer #6 · answered by Tristen P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same **** happened to me today i had a dream about this beautiful girl that liked me but i had a girlfriend and my girlfriend was in another country, she was so beautiful that she dragged me to like her back and we used to meet in a wierd place she was so beautiful i never wanted to wake up from the dream, idk what happened to the dream and suddenly i appeared at my school and the girl was there but she wasnt the girl i saw before she wasnt beautiful she was so different i didnt like her and i told her i have a girlfriend she was broken and she left by a bus but when i woke up i really felt that i still like the girl (not the girl in school but when she was in that wierd place) and until now im thinking about her i really wanna have another dream about her :/
2016-05-21 21:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by sean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is love, but it depends on their age.. if they are dating freshman or softmore year chances are it is just lust and is hardly love.. but if they are older and are in a relationship its more likely love it could be infatuation but there is a possibility it is real love because ages sixteen and up are more mature and their feelings are more experienced.
2007-12-06 08:58:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's overrated. I mean maybe it HAS happened to some or they 'think' it has happened to them.
But I don't think it's all that real. I agree with Angel though, "it really depends on the maturity of the two".
2007-12-06 08:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by D L-N<3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my mom was 15 and my dad was 17 when they started dating. they got pregant mith me when my mother was 21. they married when i was five. i'm now seventeen. my parents stil act like teenages "in love". i believe it's very possible for highschool love to be real!
2007-12-06 09:03:54 · answer #10 · answered by betty_rose5245 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can be very real....my aunt met her boyfriend when she was 13 and they fell "in love" they got married when they were 21
2007-12-06 08:56:11 · answer #11 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋