2007-12-06 07:32:32 · 15 answers · asked by mick rogers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and in addition... what makes you think anyone of you deserves the perfect man... are you perfect?
2007-12-07 06:38:33 · update #1
Unfortunately we do..
2007-12-06 07:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by FallenAngel© 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I think a vast majority of women do to tell the truth, this opinion is from years of helping a little sister who kept dumping good guys for stupid reasons or cheating. I think a lot of women have this idea that somewhere out there there is a super model guy with brains, who is the knight in shining armor and will take complete care of them and be EVERYTHING they want him to be. Sadly this is simply not true. No one can be perfect. There are plenty of extremely decent guys who may have a couple flaws. I know personally I will admit I am a tad over weight, but that doesn't change the fact that I am a good guy. or at least I think I am but I'm not sure what others think lol.
Added: Brandon Im a decent guy and I have never heard any complaints =) lol
Added: Josie you seem to have some problems =(
2007-12-06 07:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by Lorena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are those who do. We get caught up in our sappy chick flick guy- and that is the guy we want, But those men are not real, even still we get consumed with that fantasy looking for that man and we miss the decent guys out there. The decent guys don't have a script to tell them what the right thing to say is 100% of the time. No woman should settle for a man she does not love or who treats her bad. But we do need to be careful to not be so caught up in our fantasy of the perfect man, that we miss the right guy when he comes along.
BTW- I found my right guy and he makes me happy. He always treats me with respect, and I think I do the same with him- at least I try to. We love each other dearly. I just had to realize that sappy Hallmark movies are not reality.
2007-12-06 08:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why should I settle for less than what I want? If I am happy and contented to be alone in the quest for having everything I want, so what? would you really be happy with a woman knowing she "settled" for you?
I am an all or nothing kid of girl. If I can't have it damn near perfect, then i can live without. Course, I'm short sighted being a kid and all, but if I were to ever stop chasing my dream, it will be because have found a new one, not settled for mediocre.
2007-12-06 08:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by Princess Ninja 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Josie.
There are plenty of women who settle for "decent." Quite frankly decent ain't good enough for a quality female. It's not a fantasy to have high standards. It just means that one might be alone for quite awhile till someone worth one's time comes around. I managed to find a man that met my high standards, they're out there it just takes awhile.
Had I settled for less then I would have been unhappy. A "decent" guy needs to look at what he's bringing to the table. If he doesn't have much to offer then what's in it for a female who does?
2007-12-06 07:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by sappho 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's 2 sides to this.
1, as several others have pointed out, you can't let your standards suffer just because you're afraid of being alone.
But, if you hold out for the "perfect" guy, you'll probably end up cheating yourself, if companionship is what you truly seek, because nobody's perfect.
Looking back, I can see where a couple times I didn't give a guy a chance because of one small detail I didn't like: maybe his hair was too short or he smoked. (Real examples). Now I wish I had given them a chance. But who knows.
2007-12-06 07:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by Kiwi 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
thats an exceptionally sturdy factor i think of it each and every of the time approximately how a lot extra durable that's for women folk to look ideal we ought to spend countless money on makeup and products and garments and on occasion thats not even adequate a guy needs a woman with a warm physique ok shall we've some attempt to get toned yet what with regards to the flat women without butts? particular they could consume yet some women it confusing for them to income and shed pounds and on occasion it would only make you fat and nevertheless flat! on an analogous time as on the different hand what women especially think of is actual the maximum popular element on a guy could be abs and muscle which ANY guy can acquire by utilising understanding on an analogous time as the only way for a women human beings to grow to be voluptuous could be plastic sugery! the element ive maximum observe - strolling around in highschool gazing each and every of the ladies with advantageous makeup on and those tna pants (dont incredibly like them yet they nevertheless honestly look warm) with a great hair-do - (having to awaken in line with possibility an hour early to get all of this achieved) on an analogous time as theres hand fulls and hand fulls of unattractive men who stay jointly of their little communities putting forward each and every of the hots women they see previous by utilising on an analogous time as im gazing them going "ew" theres like 2 men that are warm and advantageous in my college the biggest understatement - no guy is proper.
2016-12-10 14:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! but the older we get, the more aware we are that the perfect man doesn't exist!
2007-12-06 07:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa M 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
equality is not a fantansy so no, I think I prefer being alone then being stuck with a baby-like incapable demanding husband who does nothing around the house and therefore forces me to work 2 jobs (work + home) and makes me want to kill myself after 10 years of marriage.
2007-12-06 07:38:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no, i am looking for a decent man. and its not a naively fantasy.
2007-12-06 07:37:57 · answer #10 · answered by txlady24 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well worded and yes, I agree. I have spent a lot of time doing that myself actually.
2007-12-06 07:42:01 · answer #11 · answered by Linz VT•AM 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋