I broke up with my BF for several reasons. We live together and our relationship just kinda died. He accused me of cheating, which I didn't. We got into an argument about it and he told me not to come home. After a weekend of NOT answering his phone, I finally went thome and tried to talk to him. He said If I wanted to fix it I should have come home in the first place.?? I didn't want to stay because of all the fighting and he told me if I stayed away another night I could move out all my stuff. So I said ok and now I'm moving out. NOW he wants to bring me flowers and ask me to the movies and dinner. All the things he didn't do when I was home. I don't feel I should compromise the fact taht I don't deserve to be ignored, as no one does, but I feel so bad becasue he's calling me crying and upset. Moving in was against EVERYTHING that myself and my family believes in and since he kicked me out, there are a few people that want to kick his A$$ and that's not helping. WHAT TO DO??
2007-12-06 07:32:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't matter if he's crying and upset, if you don't want to be with him, then don't. Why stay in a relationship with someone who doesn't make you happy? Love is supposed to be kind, fun, and full of happiness. If it's not, then what's the purpose of sharing your life?
As far as your family, suck up the I told you so's, and forget about it. They just love you and want you happy. If leaving him does that, then they'll fume for a while about your situation, but ultimately get over it. After all, aren't families suppose to support and protect each other! Good luck, and remember that no matter how guilty you feel about him being upset, the guilt will be much worse if you lead him on!
2007-12-06 07:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you kind of answered your own question so...
Here's approval to tell this whiny crybaby of a controlling abusive little pain in the neck that he has seen the last of you and to grow up why-don't-cha.
No you shouldn't have to compromise and you shouldn't be ignored and you shouldn't have to put up with his immature attitude.
You are doing the right thing - not for morality - but because you deserve a whole whole lot better than this loser.
Learn from this experience dear one. This kind of loser is common - hold out for the very best - 'cause that's what you should have.
2007-12-06 15:39:31 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ohkayy , in answer to yur overall question, yu got yurself into a load of cr*p. as for what to do , juss tell him that yu dont feel he respects yu and yu need some time to think. yu might wanna go back to him now , but sometimes what yu WANT is different from whats best. i say take a break from him , at least for a little , and tell him that . if after a break yu still like him , get abck together with him , but i wouldnt move back in with him again for a while.
good luck =]] i know what ret*rds guys can be lol . ((no offense to any guys :] ))
2007-12-06 15:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by kaylieandkyle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really elected not to stay - not without reason I guess but nevertheless you chose to leave. I don't know why people decide to live together and then decide not to work out the problems but......... Maybe its a good time to tell him you both need a break. Say for a month and make a date for then to discuss things. Good Luck
2007-12-06 15:43:33 · answer #4 · answered by misselie1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound like he kicked you out... you left, dont mislead others that now want to kick his a$s
if he is not trusting you, there is nothing you can do. right now he just misses having someone around, do not give in... leave him alone for a while. collect your own thoughts and give it a rest.
2007-12-06 15:39:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i dont think anyone wants to be at home waiting and wondering be glad u get a second chance it rarely happens
2007-12-06 15:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by Psychologist In The House 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋