im in love with a guy that is totally oblivious to how i feel but i cant get over him and it tears me apart because all i want is for him to love me back...and the thing is i doubt that i can be happy without that happening...is that bad?what should i do?
2007-12-06 03:50:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to realize that you can't force someone to love you. Either they do or they don't. Have you tried getting to know him better? Ask him what kind of things he enjoys doing? If he mentions any you also like, ask him if he would like to do it together. If you have tried that already and he still is not interested in you, then it is time to move on. Have some pride. There is someone out there for you. Meanwhile, see if you can find ways to improve yourself. Learn new skills, hairstyles, makeup, etc. You can volunteer in your community if you have a lot of extra time n your hands. It can make you feel pretty good to know you are making a difference in the lives of those who need it.
2007-12-06 04:09:40 · answer #1 · answered by soupkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋