Is it possible to live with a broken heart forever?

Question

The pain just feels endless for me.

Answer 1

Sweet heart, The pain is temporary. Trust me. Hurt emotions is the same thing like having a cut or a skinned knee, Eventually it will heal. It is only a matter of time. If you dwell on the subject it will take longer to heal. But it will heal. Try consentrating on something that will take your mind away from it. Do your most favorable thing. A heart mends but it will forever be a scare, This is how we learn about life, and these things gives us hope and makes us stronger. Good luck sweet heart and I am very sorry for your pain.

Answer 2

The feeling I know seem to drown you at first that you tend to think that everything stops and suddenly ends. Yes it is true indeed that pain can easily consume our being. But the real beauty of being broken-hearted is to let the pain teach you of some great lessons only it knows best how.

Living being broken hearted is never possible, maybe at a moment of your state but not forever. People around you are strong testimonial of how you can reform from being wounded into someone better and new. This time as someone stronger and full-armed.

Pain is never forever, it all depends on how we perceive it to be in our earthly existence. If we let ourselves eaten up and messed up by this negative feeling, we will become no one and left defeated in the battle.

The real beauty of pain lies on how we accept it, learn from it and reshape ourselves. Afterall, I still believe that pain will never come our ways without due purpose and in God's grace we will surely find HIS purpose of sending us one.

So why live up in pain if you can go on and smile of it.

Answer 3

It's definitely possible to live with a broken heart. It just takes a long time for the pain to become unnoticeable and even longer for the wound to heal. Try to learn more about yourself in the meantime so you can find the best way to aid the healing process.

Answer 4

It always feels endless at first but you need to make an effort to get out and do something to take your mind off the pain. I have been there. I know if hurts. But it gets better. Trust me. Try meeting new people if it's been awhile since your last relationship.You need to pull yourself out of it. There are plenty of people out there for you and there are much bigger things to worry about than sitting at home being sad and heartbroken. The world has so much to offer you. Why mourn lost love?

Answer 5

Oh God yes. My first BF 30 years ago (my folks and I left the country). My husband for 18 yrs suicided 7 years ago. I loved him so much. My BF after him I lost that was the biggest connection...love of my life.....I floated on air for months.

One broken heart??? Get over yourself. You can have it stomped on, buggered with, broken, smashed into pieces, mashed and pulverised. A heart is a pump....for blood to go through the body. Unless you eat badly as well...it will survive.

Your brain will as well....it'll get over the fact you werent wanted longterm. Love is just a chemical reaction to someone who made you feel good for a while. He/she doesnt make you feel good now and your brain chemistry will catch up to that fact, after a while.

You may fall inlove again.....and if he/she does too....you might make a commitment that is an everlasting type. That would be nice...exciting at first but it reverts to the same normal family feeling....eventually. After that is just steadfast bloody-mindedness that stops you from straying.

Answer 6

Why would you want to live with a broken heart forever is my question.

Start to understand that life goes on, if it were perfect, it would have lasted, there are better things on the horizon and learn from what you have lived.

Make sure you respect yourself, make people prove who they are and don't buy what they say. Follow your dreams for your life, do well, take care of you and love yourself. That is your priority now. Get to it girl!

Answer 7

hi linda
well the answer to that quetion is, it's only possible if you make it that way! this is a very tough situation that you are in, and i know it must be very hard. healing a broken heart doesn't take fairy dust to make all the pain disapear, it only takes time. you seem like a very strong woman that is just going through a tough time. try to make the best out of what you have. life is too precious to waste!!! good luck, and best of wishes!!!!

Answer 8

it feels endless just now, but believe me its not. theres no quick cure and it will take time, but if it makes you feel any better almost everyone will feel this way at some point in their lives so your not alone. just remember how great you are, its his loss and don't let yourself think any different. keep busy, socialising with friends and people who really matter, remember what is really important. its easier said than done, i know, but just be strong as you can and you'll be fine. i know he seems like the only guy in the world right now but you will meet someone new and forget him, because if you're completely honest with yourself, he's not worth this, is he? xx

Answer 9

The nice thing about our hearts and all other body parts is that they heal. Some take longer and some take less. Try not to focus on how sad you feel. I know its hard, but remember some of the good things that made your love worth while and let yourself accept that you made a memory and now you have to move on to the next one.

Answer 10

Yea I know what you mean, it can cause some major depression. Eventually you will find someone else, just keep trying and when you do find that special person you will forget about all the pain that the last person caused. Trust me nobody is worth the pain, they wouldn't want you to be sad. Just forget about that person and move on as hard as it may seem.