am 20 and she is 18. I am her first boyfriend. She kinda had a "slutty" past....she gave head to like 10 guys within a 3 yr time span, which i dont really think is alot to be honest..but it just bothers me to think that she did that and i think it is hurting us because i always think about it and get mad, She said she is done hooking up with guys and just wants to be with me and promised she would never cheat or anything like that...but this just really gets to me. What can i do? is there anything?
2007-12-06 02:10:44 · 20 answers · asked by Joogy J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To give this relationship a real chance, you have to let it go....Give her the benefit of the doubt until she gives you a reason to be concerned.
Look on the bright side, at least she didn't bang the 10 guys....it could be worse.
2007-12-06 02:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by Blue-eyed Stranger 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's always good to check a persons background every now and then when you're suspicious of them but, that's not the real problem. You're mad at something she did before you, which was something that really wasn't any of your business to begin with. What you need to worry about is what she's doing while she's with you. I know she hasn't questioned you about your past dealings with females so don't hold it against her.
All females have had multiple partners before they've met someone they've dated on a more consistent basis. So don't get mad, embrace that tiny bit of information and have fun with her. The only reason I can see you being mad is because she hasn't done it to you yet. Which on your part is juvenile, so if you don't want her don't mess with her anymore. Somebody else will be glad to take your place, and be the man you would've been which is "The Lucky one."
Is her past crushing your self-esteem? If not then you need to quit tripping on things you can't control.
Hope this helped you understand and keep it Pimp'n.
2007-12-06 02:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by 00silky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt have a problem with it, in fact id be happy if she only did that.
You should be happy that she had lots of practice hahahaha
Seriously buddy, dont be so uptight about it
If she promised you that, tell her that if i find out you did something like that, il be over you so fast, you wont even know i broke up with you. She'll laugh but when she notice you have a serious look, she'll instantly say i know i wont. Then tell her, i dont want to waste time with someone that i dont trust, there are many girls out there that would love to have a guy like me, and they are not hard to find.
After she agrees with you, just smile, hug her and giver her kiss on the lips.
If you do all that in a very confident manner, she should become more in love with you or something.
2007-12-06 02:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by R-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend now is kinda like that she has had sex with alot more guys then i have girls and they were all within a two year time... I think girls like that are just tryin to find someone who really cares about them, or just enjoy doin it! To answer your question... dont get mad at her about it she cant change it. You really just have to say it happened i dont like it but there is nothing i can do to change it, and just know that she is with you now and nothing else matters. You will be ok with it one day probably never forget about it thou! Just be good to her she might be upset about it the same as you are. Good luck!
2007-12-06 02:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by rotfwbimf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen just keep her going give her a reach around from behind. rub her CLT really Really hard and fast. When you're giving her oral and when you are penetrated. Im telling you she won't ever want you to stop again. Btw if you win this bet what exactly do you win. Cuz unless it's something really good, it seems like she wins every time. THINK ABOUT IT. she gets you to give her orgasms every time so why would she tell you if you won or not. Bc then she knows you will stop trying to win. Dude just think about it. O idk but if she's into anal then go there.
2016-05-28 10:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by madeleine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO WHAT? it is none of your business what she did before you, who cares? You are the one getting head...lol
Just enjoy it and stop complaining!
Didn't you have any g/f before her? would it be fair for her to get mad at you for that?
And why is it wrong for a girl to be like that but a guy could sleep with 20-30 girls and it would still be okay?
2007-12-06 02:26:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get ready for the big one: NO! I'm a fan of second chances, hell I've used them myself a couple of times, everyone does. But this is different. Sluttiness these days isn't a trend, it's a god damned lifestyle. If you choose to move forward, get some glasses to watch her like a hawk.
2007-12-06 02:16:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well everyone has a past so if you can't handle it let it go because you may end up hanging that over her head and never getting past it. has she ever cheated while she was on her head spree? if not i think it maybe ok.
2007-12-06 02:15:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be quick to be so judgemental.Talk to her and see what is going on.There may have been something that happened in her past to make her go down that path.After the conversation,then you should be able to determine what happens next.
2007-12-06 02:21:09 · answer #9 · answered by crissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it, it is the past. Can't change it even if you want to and all that matters is how she is now anyway and that she wants to be with you. Besides she as some experience from that past that you now get to enjoy.
2007-12-06 02:17:02 · answer #10 · answered by FinallySmiling 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋