2007-12-06 01:23:28 · 14 answers · asked by VJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, my husband did. I couldn't believe he wasn't calling, I knew he really liked me. We have now been married almost 20 years.
2007-12-06 01:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Men are under the delusion that you will become a mess waiting for them to call, so you'll be SO relieved when they do. I think they get it from their friends. I wouldn't even worry until the second weekend has gone by.
Remember, men don't text as much as us (well, not the ones I know, anyway) and they don't think like us, so just wait it out and see. You could always call him when you're casually waiting for your take away dinner one night when you were happening to think of him.
2007-12-06 01:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by foxy_bubbles_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
John i accidentally hit the thumbs down but i was giving you a thumbs up i don't know how to work this very well sorry about that-------oh and i think yes guys do wait to call to see if you'll call 1st or to make sure they don't look desperate
2007-12-06 01:53:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i usually call the next day, I know i shouldn't but if i really did like her I'd call and let the chips fall as they may. Life's unpredictable, you could suffer the entire week because someone told you to wait. I say if you got the vibe that you two were hitting it off really well i don't think you got anything to worry about. If your unsure, wait till at least a day. If it was horrible don't bother lol.
2007-12-06 01:29:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
personally i dont! But im not the type to play games tho! If i like women ill call them! She either is or isnt intrested in me and ill know right away! Sounds like this other person really isnt thinking about you! If he really cared he would always want to hangout or at the least talk to you! A week is too long a couple days sounds reasonable!
2007-12-06 01:28:07 · answer #5 · answered by victor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe it is some unwritten code. Guys don't want to seem eager or desperate. If you met a guy & exchange numbers & call within hours of arriving home, than he will be uninterested. It's kind of like playing hard to get I guess.
ohhhh, The rules of dating. We are so afraid to seem desperate, when we all are!!
2007-12-06 01:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by amber.ishta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, absolutely not. Who makes all of these silly dating rules anyway? If you really like her, give her a call. Maybe the feeling is mutual & she's sitting at home thinking, "I wish he'd call." Go after her before someone else beats you to the punch. Good luck. And have fun. (That googly - eyed stage is so much fun.)
2007-12-06 01:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
he's probably in basic terms slightly worried because of the fact he's shy and he extremely likes you yet doesnt want again out of his shell so call him say how your gonna leave out him mutually as youre long previous and initiate chatting, at last he will ignore
2016-12-17 09:06:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wait about 4 days usually the Thursday after the weekend club. You don't wanna look like a "bug a boo". If you call to quick you would look like your whipped.
2007-12-06 01:27:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
That's their mistake and stupidity. If things went well, call the next day to set something up for next time or just talk.
2007-12-06 01:26:54 · answer #10 · answered by airjarrod 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋