Do you think its better to let things happen naturally?

Question

Some people say that the met the right person when there weren't looking and they were just enjoying the single life.Do you think thats what works sometimes.

Answer 1

How else will it happen other than naturally? You can't make someone feel something for you, that they don't feel.

Often times when we are actively seeking a mate, the desperation comes out in the search and this scares people away. When you stop looking for that perfect mate for you, then you are no longer throwing off the desperation vibes, you have an air of confidence about you, and people are more attracted to you.

Definitely have a list of qualities and values you seek in a mate. Decide which of those features are MUST haves and which ones are nice to have, but not deal breakers if they don't have them, and try to avoid setting yourself on a deadline--deadlines have a tendency to make us feel desperate as they draw near.

Answer 2

it depends..

if you wait then you'll develop the Virtue of Patience and a Leap of Faith..

but sometimes unexpected things happens like when you feel the connection,you just can't say if were meant to be then we'll meet in the future..true..

however why will you wait when it's already there in front of you..

when you bump into something great ,hold on to it..

why wait for years, why waste the moment to be together..

but for others whom are single..

waiting, wishing and hoping will not hurt..

just don't hide coz how will you meet each other..

be open minded and explore and meet people..

Answer 3

Lisa, when you are looking really hard for someone. You can't see clearly because you are preoccupied in trying to find the right person. Sometimes when we know what we want, the karma inside our body gives off the energy we think of ourselves. Other folks pick up on it and are interested.

Answer 4

Yes, the minute you forget that you don't have that special someone in your life, you'll meet a potential partner. It happens to me all the time. It doesn't always work out..but I still met somebody when I wasn't thinking about it.

Answer 5

yes of course because say for example you dont mention something you want for a while and in the end you will end up getting it so just be single date a few people and the write person will come along eventually.

Answer 6

Yes it is...if a relationship isnt forced and it seems natural to be with someone you meet..then you've hit the jackpot...but if it seems forced then you and that person aren't meant to be...Some people come in your life for a lifetime...and some people come in your life for a season...if you can learn which is which...then you will learn who is meant for you and who isnt!

Answer 7

of course form of capability taking issues gradual, so yeah which would be a powerful thought yet dont basically dive into it, enable it ensue of course as an occasion (this would sound cheesy yet whats up its an occasion) .. you notice in video clips each and all the time while a guy starts tickling a woman and shes guffawing and then they finally end up in some place the place they finally end up kissing you realize what i recommend?

Answer 8

Yes.

Answer 9

I can say that this definitely happens. I met my wife when I least expected it and was not even looking for a relationship. Just trust me, it will happen when you least expect it!

Answer 10

I think so, most of the time when your not even looking for someone, you realize that someone around you or friends with are completley in love with! dont settle for 2nd best. always keep your head high!