One of my guy friends had a talk with me. He is 27 and i'm 21. He keeps talking bout how he wants to get married by next year. He has a lot of freinds but we spend a lot of time together. We work in the same place and spend the weekends together too as we study together. The deal is that he asked me this other time if my parents would agree to getting me engaged the next year if something came around for us. I told him I dunno. The other time he told me that he wanted to have a masters by his 30th birthday and wanted to celebrate it. He said I want you to stand with me right next to me.
Yesterday one of his friends- his very good freinds rather came around to work and said hi to me. I called my friend and told him that this guy was here. He came around we all spoke and then my frnd had to get back to work, so his frnd told him that he would leave to. But me and that guy ended up having a chat together for an hour or so . He is a nice guy and married and since we realised we had common
2007-12-06 00:52:05 · 8 answers · asked by taylor m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
frnds we ended up talking bout them. Now after this guy left, I called my frnd and told him about it and din;t think it was a big deal. Then late last night my frnd called me and was furious. He said that why when that guy had to leave was he sitting there and talking to me. He said that I knew this guy through him and this guy knew me through him so what did the two of us have to talk ? He was like I don;t appriciate this and din;t expect you and him to do this. He said he woke me up cause he;d been thinking and couldn;t sleep. I din;t know how to react as i really din;t feel this was a big deal.
I don;t know wht My frnd is thinking and its crazy cause now I don;t know what he feels about me? I mean does he like me ? cause he was pretty rude last night.
2007-12-06 00:55:22 · update #1
people!! My frnd is not marrried!! It is the other guy- his frnd who came to see us....who is married
2007-12-06 00:58:58 · update #2
and I don;t like his frnd!! I like my frnd
2007-12-06 00:59:34 · update #3
im sorry but your question abruptly cuts off and it is
impossible to know exactly what you are asking.
2007-12-06 00:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are so many things going on in this question of yours. you have a friend who more-than-hints of marriage with you and another friend who is married and cats with you.
if you like the married one i suggest forget about it because 1 he's married and 2 he's married. would you really want someone who will cheat on you in the long run?
the other one you are talking about that semi-proposes to you and all - if you don't have feelings for him then tell him head on. don't let him go on thinking that you are on the same wavelength. if you do like him but you are not ready for "the commitment" tell him outright too. if you like him enough then take the plunge.
good luck.
2007-12-06 08:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by sc2zabala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only question here is how do YOU feel about him? Do you share the same desire to get married? Ok that was two questions. Sorry
Again I have to ask, how do you feel about him? If you like him you may want to let him know cuz it sounds like he is crazy in love with you.
2007-12-06 08:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by Smurfette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, stop it till no one's hurting each other coz he's married and for sure, you don't want to hurt his wife's feelings right? ......Just control yourself and you can keep chatting with him as much as you can but don't give it up, try to be strong and if he's taking advantage to your friendship or start courting you, tell him immediately that you are not interested and you don't want to hurt his wife feelings! That's it!
May the Lord will equip you from all temptation to come!
2007-12-06 09:01:33 · answer #4 · answered by hottstuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think my eyes crossed and smoke started pouring out of my ears by the second paragraph. So let me go out on a limb and say - choose whichever guy is:
1. NOT a jealous retard.
2. NOT married.
If that means you pick "none of the above," - so be it.
And PLEASE, learn to spell "friend" will you? For chrissakes, you're 21!
2007-12-06 08:57:38 · answer #5 · answered by Slappy McStretchNuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probley had a bad day dont pin it to him just act like it never happend i dont think he will mention it and if he deos just say sorry couss obvisly he think you did something wroung try and clarify it up with him dont let it break up your relationship unless you dont like him
2007-12-06 09:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been married for just over ten years and i have come to this conclusion that, i would not get that long for murder.
2007-12-06 08:57:45 · answer #7 · answered by aussiechris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your hands off married men or you'll get burned.
2007-12-06 08:58:07 · answer #8 · answered by Rhythm of the Falling Rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋