When your feelings for a person looks ridicule because he doesnt' feel the same for you?

Question

We stayed together only a month but my attachment grew quickly.
I expressed my feelings that now looks ridicule because he obviously dont feel the same for me because at my eyes he's just ignoring me and not showing he cares.
i don't know what to do with the p thing he made grow into me and and then left forgotten and meaningless.
I wanted to keep in touch with him anyway, because I m interested in him as a friend too, but now I know i will only get hurt because he will meet new girls and I'd really have to change my mind and move over him as a boyfriend..,.
Id really like, to show him I can be indifferent to my own feeling and talk to him as nothing happened...............

It happened b4 with another guy , so I want to analyze whats wrong with me.
We date, we feel connection, I may confuse physical relationship and romanticism with love. I assume they care for me and want to stay with me. But then I realize they're running away from my attachment and my feelings,.....

Answer 1

Love is a primitive emotion, if you feel ANYTHING, its because of love, so don't worry about the love, it well CONFUSE you. Its job, hunnie, is to EXCITE feelings in you, good, bad, disgust, hate, envy, jealousy, even sexuality is a product of love. So the REAL thing to look at is the HOW to love. Not the love per-say. So looking at your above situation your dealing with guys, that don't know HOW to love you, for you. A VERY big problem in our society, so relax, millions of girls dealing with this same bit of drama. Your only shield against it is to know what to look for in a person to know exactly how they might love you. Do you what to know what that is? PURPOSE!!! What it is that brings their life meaning, the purpose to why they live there lives. That right there well tell you what LEVEL of feelings they'll feel for you. Sort of like this, if they say "I don't know" they're never going to look very deep into you, there not going to feel all that much for you, becuase they have no real reason to. Usually in this situation their there for a screw. Now if the say something like "To do the best for the one I love by understanding this madness" well then you could be assured they'll look deep into you, becuase they'll need more then a screw to be happy with you. Realize were all HUMAN, BUT we don't all treat that the same. Be smart, pick people that are welling to be honest and truthful with you about their insecurities, their fears, and their dreams, anything less, isn't worth you.....

The biggest mistake man makes about his heart is that we all know how to love the same, not understand this is going to led you strait to a life of heck, because quite frankly we don't.