I asked this guy do you care about me?
He said: like how?
I said: as a friend
He said: you are a friend and that’s it.
I said: caring as hanging out and having fun. Hugs and cuddling or what?
I said: any ideas?
He said: At this point I wound not go that far.
What is this guy saying based on this conversation we had tonight? Explain what I should ask him or assume from this conversation? Any questions I should ask him to better understand what he is trying to say to me but didn’t really come out and say it. ????
2007-12-05 18:56:01 · 8 answers · asked by princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What questions can I ask him, to find out what he REALLY is trying to tell me. I don't just want to assume his answer. I really want to know his reason behind this. What's the right words to say for him to tell me more about this problem???
2007-12-05 19:16:22 · update #1
I care about him and want to hang out with him and watch a movie and chill with his friends. Just cuddling and watching a movie that's what I mean by caring. Caring as calling me up and asking how i'm doing and just being nice that's all im asking. what can I do???
2007-12-05 19:22:51 · update #2
just friend its pretty clear
2007-12-05 19:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by whew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see you really care about this guy but this guy is not into you but you should appreciate that he respects you as a friend and should do likewise if you push this any further you going to get hurt much more than you are now.Another angle you can consider is to make him jealous without being obvious about it maybe just maybe it can work
2007-12-06 03:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by OBASAM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's saying "I want to have a friendship with you but not intimate". The sort of friendship I imagine you would have with one of your girlfriends (given that you're not gay) so you can enjoy each others company but not go to the next level.
2007-12-06 03:08:03 · answer #3 · answered by Christian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he said at this point I would not go that far right thats a sign to drop it if you ask me honestly and also by the comment you are a friend and that's it it speaks volumes .
2007-12-06 03:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is saying all he wants to be is your friend so please do not get any romantic ideas about the two of you. I would leave it alone and just be his friend and not hug or kiss him or you will lose him as even a friend.
2007-12-06 03:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. Don't push the issue. He may not be that into you or it may just be too early for him to answer honestly.
2007-12-06 03:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by Taryn K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that he only likes u as a friend and nuthin else
2007-12-06 02:59:05 · answer #7 · answered by Letsgofishing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he just wants to be your friend. thats all.
2007-12-06 03:03:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋