She ran away from home last year and i never see her but she is in a bad relationship (drugs and he hits her) We have tried evevything and ideas?
2007-12-05 17:54:58 · 7 answers · asked by knots2107 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Not much you can do except pray for her.... she has to want to change. So pray that God will bring her to the place in her life where she'll want to change and get off of drugs and an abusive relationship. I'll say a prayer for her too.
2007-12-05 18:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by wildflower 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I konw that this is hard to hear but if you have tried everything from talking to your sister about it to blatantly telling her to leave this guy, then your sister is pretty much allowing all it to happen. She doesn't realize that any of this is bad. It is hard for someone who thinks they love a person to realize that the "love" is wrong. My sister is in a relationship with someone who is mentally abusive to her but she refuses to realize that he is a jerk.
Perhaps you could take her to a clinic where they would give her some intervention help. If that doesn't work - and I know this sounds really bad - call the police on her and have her busted for drugs. That would put her behind bars for a while but at least you would know that she isn't being beaten by some a**hole or taking more drugs that could possibly kill her anyway.
I'm sorry to hear arent going well but there isnt much for a person to do in this sort of situation.
Best of Luck,
Shelly
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2007-12-06 02:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's a minor and you know where she is, your parents can insist she be picked up and brought home and then they can perhaps get her into a rehab somewhere that will help her clean up, get her head on straight and reorganize her priorties.
The only thing I can think of for an adult is a family intervention. I don't know a lot about how they work, but it will take everyone who loves her to get involved at the same time, preferably with the help of a counselor to help mediate.
Wish I had more to give you, but the only way an adult can be helped is if they want to be helped. Drugs are a powerful pull and if she thinks she loves her man, it'll take a lot to make her see that he's no good for her.
Good luck. Hope she wises up soon.
2007-12-06 02:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by Top Alpha Wolf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to you and your family. Your sister is in need of some serious help. If you know where she is at then call the police and report that there is drug use going on there. Once she is in police custody then you have a chance to ask help for her. But sometimes when someone doesn't want to change no rehab can help her. She got to want it. Keep telling her that you love her and all you want is for her to be happy. Let her know how you feel about what she is doing and that she is destroying herself for no reason. Tell her that her life is important and God didn't put her on this earth for what she is doing. Let her know that her life is important to you and your family. Help her when she wants help. Pray for her if she doesn't. Good luck and God Bless
2007-12-06 02:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing can make her leave & stop doing drugs shes an adult (Im assuming) & needs to make the best desicions for herself.
2007-12-06 02:50:37 · answer #5 · answered by Trell773 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's bad and it's gonna get worse for her, and I'm so sorry for you and your family.
2007-12-06 02:05:59 · answer #6 · answered by dearmeohmy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant help her if you dont even know:
1> does she want help, and
2> where is she?
2007-12-06 02:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋