I really like this girl, but sometimes I think she gets REALLY angry over really small things. Sometimes, she takes it out on me, and it really hurts. And I've seen that some other girls are like this, but I don't know if most or all girls are like this. I think we really like each other, but I'm not sure if this is something I want in a woman who will raise my kids. Are all, or most, or a lot, of women like this? Just get mad over really small things sometimes? Thanks for the info...just wondering if this is common....
2007-12-05
17:46:26
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hmmm, PMS eh? I don't think a girl can be PMSing ALL the time? Lol, that sounds way ignorant....but like if we were not trying to be ignorant....are girls really sensitive about really small things? Because now that I think about it....most girls I know ARE like this....
2007-12-05
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yes, everyone woman does that.
2007-12-05 17:48:25
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answered by Mutation 2
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Ladies, gents, quit referring to PMS. What he is describing has NOTHING to do with PMS. If I have to hear another cranky woman (i.e. my girlfriend) blame their constant, neverending moodiness on PMS.... I'm a gonna go on a rampage.
In response to the question: No, all women are not like your description above, however, many (i.e. my girlfriend) are. I thought I was the only guy that was truly suffering through this - and I guess it actually feels good to hear you describe the same problem I have. Men have been dealing with this problem for eons just as women have been dealing with their own set of problems. My only suggestion to you is to sit her down and explain to her how seriously her anger is impacting the relationship. People might say that this will cause her to feel fear and guilt, but I say tough. If she wants the relationship to work, shes got to work on some things... I'm sure shed say you have to work on some things too and shes rigtht. Thats what working relationships are usually like. It aint all fun and games. But get her to sit down and really let her know that this is a big deal. If she likes you, she should be willing to take some steps to at least TRY to get better. There are plenty of nice anger management books out there...
2007-12-07 03:56:26
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answered by James 1
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Yes they all do at some point. Have you ever heard of PMS. Pre Menstrual Syndrome. A time of month when the chemical balance of a woman shifts dramatically. This can lead to mood swings as well as physical discomfort. Some women aren't affected. The majority are though. Be less sensitive to the flaring of temper it's their way of coping with what they're going through.
2007-12-05 17:52:59
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answered by Adrift69 1
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Well its realy hard to say, cause everyones different and i could say no not every women gets mad, but i would say that cause maybe i don't get mad. But the truth in my opinion would be yes, cause im that way myself and usually it's when somthing is bothering me. But every women gets mad, it's called harmones, some women can handle it better than others. If she gets mad over silly things all the time then the maybe somthing is bothering her, try sitting down and have a talk with her, ask her whats on her mind, and if she refuses to talk and gets mad, then give her space, let her cool off ,and later tell her how you feel about the way she gets mad and how it bothers you , and is causing problems.let her know that your their for her anytime she needs someone to talk to.Just remember communication and trust is everything. Hope this advice helps!!!!
2007-12-05 18:01:53
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answered by kittkatt 2
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It is call being a woman. Yes, they are all alike. Don't take it personal but what you may think of as small a woman has a total different perspective of.Nothing is to small or to large for a woman to take offense to. It is not just towards men but everything in general. It takes a real man to be able to take the good along with the bad. It is called growth.
2007-12-05 17:52:48
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answered by Queen Cinbad 2
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all people get mad sometimes and while it may seem that it is for no apparent reason it is usually after many many little things have bothered them and they have not (for whatever reason) been able to deal with their feelings at the time. stress is a terrible thing and it's the little things that keep chipping away at your emotional fortitude until that last straw finally breaks the camel's back. so - no, not all women are like this but most people are if they have not learned to deal with the stress in their lives in a productive way so as to prevent these little melt downs.
2007-12-05 17:52:16
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answered by Anonymous
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It might be a small thing to you but it's not a small thing to her. What you need to do is start asking her questions to get to the heart of the matter. You'll have to be persistent.
Here's a good idea. Get a "Couple's Trivia Board Game" and play it with her. These games go by an assortment of names..... Relationship Board Game, Dating Game Rules Board Game, You can even get a computerized Dating/Couple/Relationship Trivia Game..... They help you to learn about each other; you learn things that really brings you close together. You can Google them online to order one.
2007-12-05 17:57:06
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answered by wildflower 7
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You probably drive her crazy. If you want a woman to 'raise your kids' you're probably not treating this particular girl like an equal. News flash, you should raise children *together.*
And, news flash 2, women are NOT randomly irrational creatures and the blanket statement asking if all women are like this really shows that you're a bit ignorant in this regard.
My suggestion to you? Talk to her and listen to her. If she's angry, there is a reason why.
2007-12-05 17:52:33
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answered by Anonymous
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Do all women do that? If by "all women" you are refering to all women who belong in an insane asylum, then yes.
I know lots of women. I've known many women who are moody or upset when they are enduring PMS. But I have NEVER heard of a woman who gets, as you say, "REALLY angry over really small things" who shouldn't be locked up in a rubber room.
My advice to you, cut your losses and move on. This behaviour is not normal, it is psychotic.
2007-12-05 17:50:53
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answered by Anonymous
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People get mad, and there is always a reason. Some people have a hard time identifying why they are really mad. Some people don't
Anger is common among humans. Yes, choose your woman wisely. There's no hurry right?
2007-12-05 17:52:23
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answered by ∞ sky3000 ∞ 5
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of coursen i was gonna say could they be going through pms but yes they cant be going through it all the time and to answer your question not all girls are like that. for me it has to be something really serious before i get angry about it. if its something small talk about it, no need to get angry with no one. then again everyone has their opinion, what might be small to you may be huge to them. guys and girls see things differently just take a moment to put yourself in her shoes to try and at lest understand the situation from her point of view before you jump to conclusions and say she is getting angry over something small.
2007-12-05 18:11:54
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answered by Latasha G 2
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