Is my best friend haunting me?

Question

Ok, my best friend died a few weeks ago, she was only 19, according to the autopsy she died from respiratory failure, on tuesday her family invited me to a viewing of her body, I have no other friends so I went in alone, and I started talking to her and saying my goodbyes and I seen the candle next her coffin flicker and I felt like someone put their hands on my shoulders to comfort me but there was no one there and then it was weird while I was talking I swear I seen her head nod like she was agreeing with me, I was telling her how devistated her family was without her, anywho since then I've been seeing images of a place I've never been before and I believe it's where she died I think she's trying to tell me how she died, because she died under suspicious circumstances the coroner and police are involved.
I can't explain how I know but somehow I know she was poisoned.

I want to tell the family but I can't, they don't believe in this sort of thing

Answer 1

I do not believe it is the spirit of your dear departed friend. ok, don't stop reading this till the end and don't hate me.... just letting you know what I believe it to be. I believe that one of Satan's angels (Satan can pretend to be anything he wants) is giving you this vision. Of course Satan knows what happened, because he was most likely the cause of it!

The reason Satan pretends to be the spirits of lost loved ones is because he wants you to believe that the soul does not die. However, it does die. The Bible says Death is like sleep, and the dead know nothing. Satan's original lie to Eve was that you will not die if you eat from this tree. This is just another way that Satan uses to make people believe that he was telling the truth.

I DO believe it is accurate information and you are most likely right that she was poisoned. Don't tell the family what makes you suspect it but strongly urge them to look into it. Either that or go to the police with your suspicions. you can tell them what you believe and why. Who cares if they think you are a nut? At least you will have put a bug in their ear and hopefully they will look into that possibility.

Succinylcholine will stop the breathing and leave very little in the way of trace evidence to be found at an autopsy. (just a thought)

Answer 2

I'm sorry to hear about your friend. I had one of my close friends die in her 20's to cancer. I know how weird it can feel, especially when your both so young. It felt surreal.

One of the things that you said that stuck out is that you have no other friends. That would make her death even more traumatic. I don't want to say that it can't be her trying to communicate with you but you also have to accept the possibility that your mind is creating this in order to try and grasp this whole situation. I would go to a counselor to deal with your grief and loss. I also would let the police know what you suspect. It can't hurt. Don't tell the family. There is no point in upsetting them.. they are not the ones conducting the investigation therefore this information would be useless to them anyway. People deal with loss in different ways. None of them are wrong but some maybe maladative. You really should talk with a professional, so that you can distinguish fact from fiction. It might help to find a counselor that is open to supernatural experiences, so you won't feel like they would be close minded to what you have to say.

Answer 3

If it's meant to come out it will. Tell her she needs to plant that information in someone's head that can actually do something about it. Like the police or those doing the autopsy. Sometimes when people pass on, they forget how our reality works, she may need to be reminded that this is out of your hands. I think that the family is dealing with enough and it's probably ill advised to bring it up to them.

It is beleived by many people that when you die, you stay around for a while and get to be at your own funeral and see how much people love you and attempt to comfort those mourning your death. The problem is that most times people are so grief stricken that they can't sense the departed loved one.

I wouldn't call it 'haunting' you. She's just being there for you.

I am sorry you lost your friend. *HUGS*

Answer 4

I understand, having seen spirits before and having prophetic dreams and such, that people can have spiritual experiences.

Most of the things that I have experienced were only affecting me personally, but viewing the accident that my parents had the night before I heard about it was something different.

All I am saying is that I believe you, and you might want to check out the site you were shown before you say anything. If you ever find out where it is.

By your name I think that you might be Australian, and that you are in a country that is beautiful. I was in Perth/ Fremantle for a few days. I found that country appealing and beautiful.

It saddens me to think that you have no other friends. I can be your friend if you want, I am in the US in California and I have IM and e-mail. You would honor me by becoming my friend.
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Since I understand that things don't always work the way unspiritual people see them, it is rare to get understanding in your situation. So I wouldn't take what many people are going to say to you to heart.

I hope the best for you and may God richly bless you.

Answer 5

The supernatural exists. I used all about science and materials and what not, but things change when you experience it on your own, I had seen a ghost and a friend of mine has seen it as well, its real as it gets.

in your situation, if you truly believe it, and in an uncanny sense, know that your visions are true, tell them, the police, or your parents, or at an authority level. it maybe that you're perhaps in denial about your friend's death, (i mean no disrespect whatsoever, my deepest apologies if i have) but I'm merely just giving out alternative theories. my sympathies are with you, and pray if you visions are true and are one of the true blessed that have gotten in touch with your loved ones, then i say make haste and start the investigation before the trail turns cold.

Answer 6

Listen ..go to the police....most people here won't take you serious. They would if the whole town saw a billboard with your friends face on it in the sky though.
Some people are non-believers until it happens to them. It takes just that to change their minds too.
So if you are very serious.....do as I said. They will run a toxicology test. There are many drugs that can cause this kind of death..

Answer 7

Do you believe in this sort of thing? It could be true. On the other hand, grief does terrible things to a mind. It is possible you may be imagining it---but only you can tell. Poison usually shows up on autopsies, though, you should take that into account. Best of luck, stay strong..

Answer 8

oh yea! her house is definetly haunted i could recommend going to a close-by church and grt an exersist for her bc if she is being injury then yep she desires her abode to be cleansed no longer her the abode just to maintain her and her relatives plus every person else who have been to stay interior the hiuse interior the destiny. im a mystical investigater so i wish my suggestions helped you in basic terms on your buddies buddies and relatives!!!

Answer 9

Maybe you should tell the police. It won't be the first time that they have solved crimes with the use of esp or something like that. I think that maybe you are the one who should help. Go for it but pray first!

Answer 10

Just because our physical dies, doesn't mean our spirits don't live on. Its really easy for people to dismiss what they can't explain or don't understand/ Some people are more in tune and can pick up on that energy and apparently you have been able to do that with your friend that has gone over.

Don't think of it as her "haunting" you. Since she was your best friend, she loves you and she may have tried to talk to her parents or others but they couldn't pick up on that energy. Once she knew you could, she wanted to do as much as she could to get your attention.

Do you meditate? Pray? Just ask the universe to help you deal with this. Ask your friend to show you in a way you will understand, what she wants you to know. It may not happen right away but just be aware, there may be signs to help.

Hope this helps a little. BTW, I'm sorry for your loss.