me and my bf just started in a new restaurant... and everytime i change out of my uniform and into my casual clothes... i always dont wear my jacket and hold it by my hand on purpose so that my bf and my other new co-worker (guys) see my bod... (like in tank tops, shirts, stuff that hug my curves). I never fail to see them look at me with "that look". But i dont do it because i want to be slutty. I just do it because i love hearing my bf complain how other guy looks at me like that and how he doesnt want others to see my "hot bod"... i know lots of guys like it if other guys are looking at their gf like that but my bf is different. He doesnt treat me as a trophy and he treats my as his gf... though i just love hearing him complain about it.
Does this make me a bad person?
2007-12-05 17:00:06 · 30 answers · asked by NickNames 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
may i please say that i have no intention of leaving my bf
2007-12-05 17:25:29 · update #1
Yes, that makes you a brat. I feel bad for your boyfriend. He didnt ask for you to rub anything in his face or to tease him with other guys. That's just sad & mean.
Well you may have no intention of leaving your boyfriend, but he may just decide to leave you if you keep doing that.
2007-12-05 17:03:01 · answer #1 · answered by Sweets03 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Not a bad person, but it will at some point make him wonder why you want to tease him so. Sounds more like you equate jealousy with caring as a lot of women do because they have been with insecure men. Now the better question is, what if he stopped caring that you did that? Would you start to complain?
2007-12-06 01:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it makes you an attention w*hore, which really isn't a compliment. You're doing it on purpose just to get your boyfriends goat, and uhhh yeah! I'd say that makes you a bad person. You're messing with his feelings, and doing it purposely. That's immature and just shows people that you're not taking your relationship seriously and most importantly totally DISRESPECTING YOUR BOYFRIEND. How would you like it if he was doing that to you? Getting other girls attention in front of your face just to piss you off? You have a sick, twisted, mind. You love hearing him complain??? Get your head checked! Why don't you do your bf a favor and dump him.
2007-12-06 01:10:56 · answer #3 · answered by grneyedgrly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you're very insecure and need the compliments all the time. You like to be treated as a trophy. Ask yourself why you need this kind of attention and try and fix it. Councilling might be an idea.
2007-12-06 01:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by Lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think your a bad person, i just think you like the attention. Just make sure you dont come off as a tease cuz then your bf will start thinking in a more suspicious manner. He may start thinking your looking for someone else
2007-12-06 01:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by Oh Me!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will end up losing him ! If he treats you as more than a trophy thats a good thing right? It shows he has respect for you.
It sounds like you have a good man so why try and ruin it by making him jealous?
2007-12-06 01:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it makes you a bad person. Maybe your doing this because your boyfriend is not giving you the attention that you crave. All women like other men to look at them because it ensures that the women is still "hot stuff".
2007-12-06 01:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by chicata25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're trying to communicate to him in the wrong way. Be more direct if you feel he is not giving you enough attention. This is an example of a communication problem.
2007-12-06 01:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by seriously omg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think every girl wants their man to compliment them and be possessive of them. I mean if some random guy grabbed you A** you'd want him to fight/confront that guy right? I don't think you're a bad person because I might do something similar just to get his attention. You just want to know that he cares about you. Every girl does something like that in one way or another because she needs the attention/needs to know that her man is completely and totally into her.
2007-12-06 01:04:28 · answer #9 · answered by Kat F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello, sociopathic tendency chica. I had a friend who did that. She was annoying coz she couldn't take it if her significant other even LOOKED at another person besides her...but she was allowed to look at whoever she wanted. I bet you two would have a lot to share on strategies.
Sick.
2007-12-06 01:05:08 · answer #10 · answered by dumbuglyweirdo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋