If you are attracted to a woman and you want to get to know her, How would you approach her and what hints would you give her?
2007-12-05 16:40:47 · 7 answers · asked by conny 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would casually approach her and be myself. If she doesn't like me for who I am, then what's the point in trying to please her in other ways? Eventually you are going to revert back to being yourself, and if they hate you for who you are then being with them in the first place is pretty irrelevant.
I respect women and I wouldn't want to come off as anything but who I am.
2007-12-05 16:46:58 · answer #1 · answered by Michael 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a good person to give you an answer but I will anyway. I'm too old to stop a woman on the street that looks attractive so if I'm attracted to a woman it must be that I have some regular contact with her.
I would start by trying to engage her in pleasant conversation, make good eye contact, smile when I'm with her, and try to ask her questions about herself. After a few times, if I'm still interested, I would tell her how much fun it is to talk to her and maybe that I think she is pretty.
Even if she did not do any flirting with me, if she was pleasant to me I would ask her out for coffee or dinner. If she said yes, then I would suggest some place nice and take it from there.
If she said thanks but for whatever reason said no, that would be it, I would move on. I would still try to be as pleasant to her as I had been but I would never ask her out again. A woman has a right to say no if she's not interested; and I would rather have her say no, in that case.
But if she is interested in the man then she should think of an alternate time when she can go out. I have no time for women who play hard to get, or for that matter, play any games at all.
2007-12-06 01:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Strike up a conversation. Before you talk, notice what she's doing, who she's hanging out with, etc. This can give good things to talk about.
Try to get to know her. I'd suggest finding a way to get her number without sounding like you're picking her up, because I would hope you're not picking her up, and then just get to know her. Find out what you like and dislike about her. Also, it helps to open up to other people. Other people are more willing to tell you things about themselves when you've told them about yourself.
2007-12-06 00:46:57 · answer #3 · answered by Bartthollemew 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would talk to her and become closer friends then i have been, and slowly start to be with her more and more, i would do things that are not nessisary but get me time with her, like take the bus when with her when i could just walk. also i would start to play with her more, like tickle her or hug her.
2007-12-06 00:44:35 · answer #4 · answered by Hunter 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would probably compliment her smile or hair or something and then conversate with her and ask her if she would like to talk on the phone sometime.
2007-12-06 00:44:07 · answer #5 · answered by snrugglebau1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy of course, but I would hope a guy would try to make me laugh or have a nice convo. w/ me
2007-12-06 00:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Direct tell her that i interested with her and wanna know about her more.
2007-12-06 00:49:35 · answer #7 · answered by tankc89 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋