i really really mis my ex i can tstop thinking about him he broke up with me the 1st of november and i still have not got over him. he said it was because we had nothing in common. we were better friends before. and he liked the talks only me and him could have. but grr i miss him and every night i have the best bff we talk and she helps me but i still miss him alot and well yea idk what to do.
There is no one at my school that i like they are either mean bad or really cool popular and i dont want anybody else. He was my first bf but all we did was hold hands and hug. We went out for almost 3 months.(it woulda been a 3months on november 14) and well IDK HELP i cant get over him and then also he got a new gf the week after exactly and i just now notice its been like i month and would acctually be exactly a month for them now but ahhh PLZ HELP i dont want anyone else and oh yea im in 7th grade and im not little (i am very mature) so plz plz help!!!
THANKS!!!
2007-12-05 16:07:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IVE TIRED TO GET OVER IT I JUST CANT
2007-12-05 16:09:42 · update #1
ppl i know its not the most important thing right now but i get on honor roll everytime so yea i still study cause hes very smart to and yea u guys are just idk
2007-12-05 16:17:01 · update #2
ur in fuc king 7th grade it dosen't matter u wernt going to marry him so quit ur bitchin and suck it up
2007-12-05 16:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in 8th grade I felt the same way about a guy. He broke up with me and it took me almost two years to get over him. I was doing so many things wrong. I'll share with you some of them:
1.) Jr. High relationships were not meant to last. You may think so now but once you enter high school things change.
2.) Allow yourself some time away from him, it isn't good to hang out too much after a break up, it arouses feelings.
3.) Stay away from guys for a while, they can be trouble if you're not careful.
2007-12-05 16:15:38 · answer #2 · answered by Chelsea Marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just takes time,esp where it was your very first boyfriend. You won't feel this way in time,trust me. I've been though it, everyone has. And no you won't like any other guy until time heals this, but trust me you will find guys you like even more then this one. Yes you might be mature but you are still very young, still a lot of life lessons to learn and yes this one sucks! but you will have more boyfriends though out your junior high and high school days, your taste in guys will probably change as you grow and mature even more. Then you leave the sheltered world of high school and realize there's a whole new world out there and plenty more fish in the sea. You will have plenty! of years of relationship or dating,so enjoy being young now,have fun with your frineds,enjoy your hobbies you love, laugh, live!be young!you won't get these years back, don't waste your time being upset about a guy!:)
2007-12-05 16:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only in 7th grade there is going to be plenty of boys in your life just worry about you school work and your friends you don't really need a boyfriend it might seem like the most important thing right now but it's not school and your friends should be don't worry guys come and go there like buses the next one will be by soon
2007-12-05 16:14:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you lost your bf, but 3 months is really just an infatuation. It hurts now, but give it a little more time and the memory will be easier. Get out and enjoy being with friends. You don't need to worry about finding a new bf for awhile..one will come along eventually.
2007-12-05 16:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way The NEW girlfriend won't last either I gaurentee it!!!!! She will want to cry on ur shoulder. You should do something out of town with some girlfriends bowling Even youth church groups u meet kids from other schools!! Go to another schools funtion just to check out the guys u are young and u & ur friends will have fun doing it!!
2007-12-05 16:17:00 · answer #6 · answered by Dotr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of negatives about him. You're only in 7th grade, it's not gonna get farther than what it seemed like it did. There are over 6 billion people in this world. I think there's at least one more boy out there better than him.
2007-12-05 16:16:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go out and socialize and meet some new people. The best way to get over a guy (other than time) is to meet a new one!
2007-12-05 16:11:57 · answer #8 · answered by Bean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey kiddo these things can be tough, especially when its your first boyfriend. try not to think about him so much, spend time with friends and do fun things to keep your mind off him. i know it doesnt sound like much now but i promise you'll get over him and find someone who really cares about you and appreciates you, and wont dump you for some silly reason like this guy did. your young, not little, just young, and trust me, there will be soooo many other guys out there that will be dying to hang out with you, forget your ex, if hes gonna dump you for a silly little reason like that, then he doesnt deserve to be hangin with a cool mature chick like you anyways. another thing i recommend for breakups, CHOCOLATE!,especially if you have some bff's to share it with. chill out girl and just wait, there will be another guy along soon, thats just dying to date you. if ya wanna talk holla at me
2007-12-05 16:21:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a jackass and obviously doesn't respect you very much if he got a new gf one week after you guys broke up. Get angry...keep venting your frustrations...3 months in middle school and highschool can seem so long...but its not, trust me. Just keep taking care of yourself and concentrate on making yourself feel good.
2007-12-05 16:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by little e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young and time will heal all wounds. Trust me, you will find someone else and you will be happy and able to move on. For now, just take it one day at a time.
2007-12-05 16:10:51 · answer #11 · answered by Arctic Flame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋