why do i always get myself into this? i cant ever make this work! i always mess it up .. help?

Question

so i like this guy right?
but i dont know if he likes me .. or at least as much
he is my best friend .. most of the time
but i sorta think i really really like this kid a whole lot!
actually i know i do.
and not just cause he is my best friend..
i mean that helps ..
but liek this isnt .. hey you my bff lets go hang out
this is like hey i like you lets go out...
ok well now more to the point ...

i know for a fact that he *used* to like me the same way i like him now ..but i do not know how he feels now ..cause i know that i probably messed things up so bad 2 years ago.. or last year .. or 3 months ago .. whenever it is he did like me.. and now i have realized that i REALLY like this boy and that i have for 4 years but am just afraid that he is too nice for me or im afraid that we wont have anything to talk about ... i don't know.. but should i tell him i really like him or will that be bad for our friendship? and should i find out if he still likes me? and if he's intrested

Answer 1

Unless your honest about your feelings, you can be asured that you won't have anything to talk with him about. The trust way to having a CONSTANT flow of conversation is to do your best to be honest, try, if he gives a fling monkey about you, he'll think at the least everything you say is "cute", at the most he'll take it as gold. So work on that..... and yes you should get him to be honest with you about how he feels, by being honest with him.....