2007-12-05 14:18:50 · 16 answers · asked by beautifulalways19 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah just leave him, if that's possible. It's not comfortable to live like that.
He has to decide whether he trusts you and wants to be with you. It's easier to make that decision when you aren't around, because your absence will hurt enough to knock some sense into him.
2007-12-05 14:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could say you shouldn't have done it in the first place, but you know that and there's nothing you can do about it now.
It is natural for him to accuse you and mistrust you now, so you need to let him & take it because you deserve it. He will eventually learn to trust you again if you show him that he can. It'll just take time.
If you can't accept that he's going to feel this way, or you can't deal with the time it will take for him to trust you or whatever then you need to reevaluate your relationship and think about whether or not you actually want it. I mean, why did you cheat in the first place?
2007-12-05 14:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by Tammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure your man gave you enough greif about cheating - so i wont -
my suggestion is if you really like him sit him down and talk to him - tell him you understand you broke that trust but it was this many *** ago, you havent deceived him since then and you wont do it again - if he can never trust you then he needs to let you know so you can move on too because no trust is no relationship - i wouldnt be able to just up and forget about my man cheating on me but i already know if i cant get over it or at least control myself in certain situations - neither one of us will ever be happy - one of us for worrying what the other one is doing - the other because they will be constantly nagged when they may have actually learned their lesson -
2007-12-05 14:24:25 · answer #3 · answered by imissmahboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably thinks like most once a cheat always a cheat. Even if your not. you can do two things work on the trust thing or leave.If you leave he'll just say that you left because of the other man that he thinks that you have. !!!!!!!! your between a rock and a hard spot. GOOD LUCK !!!!!!!!
2007-12-05 14:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by moonfilly2u2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult to trust again somebody who betrayed us, you betrayed your man, you must accept the consequences of your actions. There is no trust, you cheated on your boyfriend or husband, no future there, sorry.
2007-12-05 14:24:45 · answer #5 · answered by Idon'tlivehere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Couples therapy to sort out the trust issue for him, and the cheating on your half. Can you blame him for not trusting you? Come on. Its just me, but I would've said goodbye to you a long time ago.
2007-12-05 14:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by RR 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he can't let it go and leave it in the past then the relationship is doomed and you need to end it now.
2007-12-05 14:26:51 · answer #7 · answered by mamabee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully he will eventually fully trust you- if you are honest with him about everything starting today and you make sure he knows it. Hope it all works out.
2007-12-05 14:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by Lance O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already screwed up his trust. Nothing you can do. He may never trust you again. That's what you get for cheating in the first place.
2007-12-05 14:21:16 · answer #9 · answered by Kathy R 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
then you need to get out of the relationship. you messed up the trust within that relationship. if you dont have trust, then you dont have a relationship. tell him how you feel. if he cant respect that, then you know where he stands.
2007-12-05 14:22:12 · answer #10 · answered by texaslady24 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋