okay well i was with him for about 3 months and then i had my doupts about us and i thought he was going to break up with me so i decided that i had to end things but as soon as i told him his friend explained to me that he was really busy with family so then i felt like a b**** then i tried to fix things the next day but he was really upset so e walked away. anyways now its been about 2 months almost and i have realized im really in love with him and that i want him back. and things have started getting better in the past week. everyone says that he still likes me alot and that i havent lost him. but he can barly look at me and when he does he looks really sad and i want another chance to fix this because i love him and i kno he loves me and hes just scared im gonna hurt him again so i guess im ask how i sould go about telling him i want and need him and i want to fix this?
2007-12-05 13:43:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If YOU ended it - then he will see right through ANY attempt at getting back together...
After all, you broke HIS heart by dumping him - why would he want to put himself back into that situation again?!?!?!?!?
2007-12-05 13:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by Captain Canuck 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave the poor guy alone you have some major issues and will end up screwing him up good ! But if you are determined you had better get your S*** together first then tell him that you realize you were a total B**** to him before and would really like a chance to make things right be prepared to be shot down though !
2007-12-05 21:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull him away in person. And talk to him. Tell him all you have told us. How you were scared he was going to hurt you. How you came to realize you are in love with him and each day without him is another day your heart hurts. I'm sure that he will understand. It may take a little more time for him to go back out with you, but if he has the feelings he says he does then he will want you back as much as you want him.
2007-12-05 21:47:20 · answer #3 · answered by Lillianessa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him, everything, you thought he was gonna break up with you so that's why you did, before he could, because you hoped it would hurt you less. You made a very immature response to something you assumed, instead of addressing it properly. ask if he can forgive you, you know it is hard, but you would like another Chance. Then let the chips fall where they may.
2007-12-05 21:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by do.drop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up and ask him, if you two are ever alone. & tell him exactly what you told us. That you had doubts, and you were scared.. and you made the wrong choice. Admit your faults & tell him you love so much ; and that you wouldn't do such a thing like THAT again. & if he still loves you. He'll come to an understanding and i'm sure you guys will make it up with a hug/kiss. Whatever, but you know .. if someone did that to me .. i would feel so scared/nervous to be around that guy who broke up with me. But to let you know .. if that did happent o me and they asked me back .. i would feel a bit confused ; so . Putting myself in his shoes. Try your best to explain to him everything. And goodluck!
2007-12-05 21:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by Febrezie~! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's sad that you dumped him. no wonder he's hurt. It might take alot of work to get him back.
I can see how much you love him by the way you poured out your emotion to us.
You should do the same for him. Sit down and put everything you feel into a letter, and give it to him.
Good luck
2007-12-05 21:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by Brian V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking solely at the length of your details, without reading more than the first few words - - misspelled and otherwise - - I would say that you are working too hard on this relationship (if not the question!) and need a break or forget about it (if I had a girlfriend as chatty as you, I would have broken it off, too!). ;)
2007-12-05 21:53:22 · answer #7 · answered by skaizun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Don't seduce him. Save that for later. What you need to do is walk right up to him and tell him the truth. Let him know that you were wrong to break up with him and you want to be his girl friend. By being honest with him you will regain his respect.
2007-12-05 21:48:55 · answer #8 · answered by Dave G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since when is someone something to be won? Tell him up front or write a letter but get it over with so it doesn't haunt you.
2007-12-05 21:51:32 · answer #9 · answered by sweetnfoxychick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just grab the man and pour your heart out, tell him everything you told us and try to convince him that you'll try not to do it again. it shouldn't be too bad cause eh still likes you and also the break up was over something kinda stupid, its not like you cheated or anything.
2007-12-05 21:49:29 · answer #10 · answered by Rick F 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋