I always want and need my bf. I hate being this way because for one thing, he needs his space. Another thing I cant really always have him when I want. We both have busy lives and I cant interfere with his all the time, and I hate it when I do. I hate being so damn needy and always wanting him there.... is this okay? Being needy? Is it normal? Or should I change? Am I wrong?
2007-12-05 11:44:24 · 1 answers · asked by . 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You didn't explain the extent of your neediness. THe points to try to balance a relationship with our ALREADY exsisting lives, which is why people get into abusive relatinoships really is because they love the person so much and have no life outside them, sort of like what your doing to yourself. So really you need to learn how to "need" you to make YOU happy. The bf is their to help, not do it all for you, but don't worry we all make this mistake, at least your honest! Most people just hide it and get jealous, SO KEEP THAT HONESTY UP! I've answered over 20 questions today and your the only one of them I'd hug if I seen them, because your the only one whose really been honest. So keep that up, and TRY to find some other stuff you can depend on to make yourself feel, atleast, at peace, while your waiting on your fella.
2007-12-07 05:41:17 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋