im just questioning my own decisions..trying to figure out what is right and what is wrong
2007-12-05 11:25:22 · 8 answers · asked by mmmmoi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
With one woman my entire life, unless she leaves me or cheats.
2007-12-05 11:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by Protik Maitra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that people should be with just one person, when they find the right person for them. But up until that point there is nothing wrong with casually dating a few people here and there to find out what you like and are into. I do sort of advise against having sex with all those casual people however, because you never know what you might catch and who you may wrongfully fall for or have fall for you and your feelings aren't there. So think before leaping into the bed with anyone. Sex usually complicates many things and if you aren't ready for the complications never open that door. Oh and this is very common sense, but for some its not. If you are casually dating many people tell them that is what is going on, and let them decide to stay with you or not. Because people really do not deserve to have their feelings hurt when they find out you are dating others and they are very serious about you. And it would feel too much like they are involved in your little game and they are an unwilling contestant. So be upfront with everyone. If they can handle it great, if not be willing to accept their unwillingness to date you with others.
P.S. When dating anyone, make sure you are dating them for the right reasons and always ask yourself is this the person I can turn to in a crisis? Do I just want to have fun with this person? or do I want something much more serious? Are you compatible with this person? Can talk on many topics or have nothing to say? There are more questions to ask yourself as you go along, but you get where I'm going with this. Oh and another important thing is, before you can really choose the right person for yourself make sure you can love yourself through and through. Because you can't love anyone if you feel you are unworthy and don't deserve love. Good luck and hope you make the right choice.
2007-12-05 19:46:02 · answer #2 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine anything being as fulfilling as spending ones entire life with the one person you love completely, who loves you in the same way, and whom you trust 100%.
2007-12-05 19:34:18 · answer #3 · answered by Mountain Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would chose to be with one person because I know how my feelings are. I could'nt get emotionally involved with too many ppl at one time because I would'nt want to be treated that way!!
2007-12-05 19:32:16 · answer #4 · answered by mousey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One man my entire life. I think I've found that one too ... Let's just hope he feels the same way.
2007-12-05 19:32:30 · answer #5 · answered by agonyaunt86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I find my soul mate, than I would want to spend the rest of my mortal years with him and only him.
2007-12-05 19:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by diva9047 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer to be with one person after I finish looking over the menu. . . which will take awhile.
2007-12-05 19:29:19 · answer #7 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one woman if she is a good wife.
2007-12-05 19:29:35 · answer #8 · answered by bungee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋