i miss my ex boyfriend. but theres this new girl. and she got him. and they were together for atleast 2 weeks and he broke up with her. and shes like crazy about him. and it pisses me off because shes new, they werent together for that long, and i still like him a whole helll of a lot. everytime i go to his locker shes always there. its like i can never have 5 effing minutes alone with him. the ***** is constantly there. and im not trying to be mean. but she is way to obsessed. and shes like that with every guy in the school. but especially him. yet she flirts with like all the other guys. it really pisses me off if you havent noticed yet..lol but i just want him back and he likes BOTH of us. so i dont really know what im supposed to do..
please help. :]
2007-12-05 11:08:16 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he did say that she kisses like ****.
haha. but yeah
and when he was with her he would tell me he still likes me
right now we are best friends. lol
2007-12-05 11:26:10 · update #1
dont worry eventualy ull get over him
2007-12-05 11:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by Kim K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
missing him is entirley normal I am afraid. You just have to accept you are going to feel that way.
I bet he is loving the attention of you girls competing over him. If I were you, I would tell him where you were gonna be, let him know you would be happy to see him there too, then see if he comes to find you. Somewhere like the mall or just somewhere else in school. Then you will have private time together. If he hangs out with her all the time instead, I am afraid it's cos he doesn't have the credentials to be your man. Be careful, or he will end up dating you both or messing you both around for ages.
2007-12-05 19:14:22 · answer #2 · answered by jammygal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's hard to see him with someone new but he obviously isn't that much into her if he broke up w/ her after 2 weeks. She's probably all up on him because she knows she was just a rebound. Cheer up and just try and talk to him, have a friend go to him and set a time and place to talk. Friends are less embarrassed than if you went straight up to him in front of her. My feeling is that he cares way more about you than her. Hope I helped.
2007-12-05 19:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by alexl96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be sweet, sexy, confident & happy. Obsession & desperation does not make you more attractive, so let the other girl do that.
Also, relax. This sounds like High School. So it's more of a practice run for romance than the real thing.
(Yeah, I know it doesn't FEEL that way)
2007-12-05 19:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix Quill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time and remember there are plenty of fish in the sea. Plenty.
Make sure that you're appealing to people, and not visibly upset by this. That would be unattractive. And if he sees you as a better choice, he'll see her flaws and decide whether or not that's what he wants.
Keep your head up & take care,
Justin
2007-12-05 19:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by Justin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is enjoying the attention from both of you girls. I know you still like him, but you don't deserve to be strung along like that. I am sure you will meet someone who cares about you and won't mistreat you. Keep looking. While you are hanging around him, you are missing out on some great guy who really likes you !
2007-12-05 19:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by loveromanz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit back and wait it out. She could only be after him to annoy you. By the sounds of it she's all over every guy, and your one will notice that soon. Play it cool, and stay his friend.
If you broke up with him, perhaps you should talk to him about it.
I wouldn't stress about this other girl problem, he's already dumped her once, I doubt he'll be looking to go back.
2007-12-05 19:16:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first tell that ***** to bac off yo man and if she says that he WAS yo man say i want him now and now only so if does not leave him alone when you see her at his locker every time he does not look shove a little bit on purpose and say sorry excuse me and then ask him to meet you after school.
2007-12-05 19:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by Diamond Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should realize that this too shall pass. Your hormones are raging and you need a vibrator to releive the sexual pressure safely.
Any woman who is so needy that they have to pursue a "man" will so lose him.
Ignore them both and flirt with other boys.
2007-12-05 19:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by momonster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be her and monopolize his time that could be why he got rid of her- a guys friend is the best way to get him back- just talk to him on another level than her and make him see the friendship that he lost, maybe he will want it back
2007-12-05 19:12:05 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the guy exactly what you just said. Tell him how you really feel about it. If he's that great, I'm sure he'll listen and understand:)
2007-12-05 19:12:03 · answer #11 · answered by Ms. Mac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋