I dated a guy for three weeks,when me and my fellow where on a break, who was known locally as a bit of a 'player'.He knew about my boyfriend, and kept saying in indirect ways that i should leave him!The chemistry was amazing, he told me he 'was falling for me' and, 'felt nervous'. I felt the same.One night we had a few much to drink and decided to become 'exclusive',if i left my guy only. I knew it was all a hard act he put on and was as soft as caramel inside.Unfortuantely, I kept talking about marriage settling down.(no,we never had sex)He told me he would give me a shout when he took me home but he never did.I went back with my boyfriend, Now I keep seeing him at my local fillin' station every day and night .Sometimes going in just for things like chewing-gum!! He flashes lights,signals, drives slow like he wants me to talk.well NO WAY! .It seems I see him everywhere i turn.Do you think he really has feelings, what does this mean?
2007-12-05 09:30:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he has feelings to me. If he keeps finding ways to see you then there is something there
2007-12-05 09:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by Scott 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a 46 year old woman who has 3 grown children. Take it from me I have been their and done that. They just want the booty-call. If you are easy at giving it up then they will surely take it. Pray and trust the Lord. you many not be a christian but trust me you will one day be glad that you waited and got married before sex. Sure it feels good but their are too many diseases out here and it is a good idea to not have recreational sex. And by all means if you must use a condom. But trust me dear you will find out what men really want from you and they will value you more if you are a person who waits and is not an easy catch. feel free to email me at donnalhall3003@yahoo.com
2007-12-05 09:40:35 · answer #2 · answered by DONNA H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think you should just forget about him for a while and just do your own thing because the right guy will come to you and dont rush into anything just take your time. The right one will come to you soon and let them come to you instead of you going to them. I think you should just forget about men for a while and just do your own stuff like hanging out with your friends and family that's what i did and it works that way. I hope you find your dream man or should i say your PRINCE.
2007-12-05 10:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a little confused?!
i think you scared him away by talking about marriage. that is the last thing 'a player' wants to think about. is he stalking you?
maybe you should talk to him and find out what all this is about. the fillin' station is a good place to do so, cause it's a public place. give it a try. you'll never know. maybe he lost your number.
2007-12-05 09:35:52 · answer #4 · answered by wish4jellybeans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know...he seems soft, but maybe he just wants you to be his toy. I say, if you like who your with now, stay with that person. That guy was a fling. If your still unsure, talk to him, try to read his feelings. But don't let yourself get stuck in the middle of this, and don't get hurt. YOU ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT HERE! Just forget that guy. He is nothing. And hopefully you'll be happy where you are now.
2007-12-05 09:40:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mallard. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just see you as a challenge,one more notch on his bed post (if you catch my drift!!!!!).
Be careful here.
If he was Honourable, he would come up & speak to you & tell you how he feels.But this seems that he wants U to do all the work!,then drop you like a stone.On the other hand IF you fancy him & you BF is boring you.Its your choice but if it was me or a mate i`d steer clear.
2007-12-05 09:40:12 · answer #6 · answered by Sea.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing around, trying to get what he can't have, or something childish/boyish. He needs to grow up, that will take him time as it does most guys. I would let him go, then if you and your boyfriend don't work out and the other guy grows up and can show you that, then maybe consider him.
2007-12-05 09:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by Ggirl99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be heaps of possibilitys here ,it could be he hates your bf and just wants to piss him off.could be falling for you and all that then turn into a stalker or could be just one of them a holes that like taking women off their boyfriends cause of the thrill of the chase and all that i say stay away from the guy and iof it feels like he is everywhere you go tell ya bf about it so it doesnt get out of hand
2007-12-05 09:38:34 · answer #8 · answered by Dezz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sure does have feelings and he enjoys tormenting you. But after 3 weeks why were you even thinking about marriage because that is not what's on his mind.
2007-12-05 09:36:04 · answer #9 · answered by MYRA C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you back with your old boyfriend when you obviously don't love him? You are so mean and unfair to the one who actually DOES care about you...so shame on you.
2007-12-05 09:34:23 · answer #10 · answered by greengo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋