how did you tell them?
have you ever been told youre a bad kisser?
did they change the way they kissed or did you change the way you kissed?
personally, my boyfriend and i have been together for 10 months... when we kiss its fine.. the cute sweet kisses are are good and everything.. even when it gets a little heavier kisses they are still good..
but when it gets into a REALLY heavy intense kiss... it turns me off. i go completely cold. there is no more heat in that kitchen. he gets rough and almost hurts my face.. (im a small girl and hes a big guy).. he has kind of a light mustash/beard and it pricks me (ive told him bought this and he shaves it more often)... there becomes a lot of spit... and too much tongue.
i love him very much... do i tell him this..? or do i just.. not get to the hot and heavy kisses....
what would you do?
2007-12-05 09:24:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yup, I've been with bad kissers before. Luckily the relationships with them didn't last long, though, so it wasn't a problem!
You will have to be careful, because if you just outright say that your boyfriend is a bad kisser, it will completely destroy his confidence. I would suggest guiding him as to how you like to be kissed, telling him when it feels good, saying to him "I really like it when you [insert how you like to be kissed here]." If he's getting too carried away, tell him, but keep it light-hearted, e.g. you could say something like, "Easy tiger, slow down a little!" But, if he's hurting you, you should certainly tell him, as I'm sure he'd be mortified.
He'll eventually learn how you like it. Everyone is different and everyone has different tastes. And some men need just need a little training! After all, good lovers are made, not born...
2007-12-05 09:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by happyg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been able to work up the nerve to tell anybody that they are a bad kisser. I BELIEVE that I am a good kisser and I've never been told otherwise.
2007-12-05 09:44:58 · answer #2 · answered by LadyBug 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i will tell him honestly that his not a good kisser...just be honest dear guys sometimes like girl saying what they really want esp this kinda INTIMATE moment.....me about kissing nope i never had any guys complain so far (maybe not that i know)...lol
2007-12-05 09:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told that to my girlfriend and she told me: we never kiss each other with my husband. Trust me.That was real.
2007-12-05 09:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋