ok so i have a friend. we like each other, but we always have arguments when were talking online or on the phone. but, when we hang out, it seems like im not hurt at all,,like everything's just fine and we always have fun.like we talk about random stuff and just laugh at anything. and when we go out its like were in an actual relationship. then when we part ways and go home, and talk on the phone or msn, it always gets messed up and then the cycle begins again. we meet up have fun go home argue and im sad again. what does this mean? what should i do? help please!!
2007-12-05 09:19:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you have a communication issue with this person. "talking" to someone on-line or on the phone can be misconstrued because you don't have facial cues to tell you if the person is joking etc. Also....depending on what you are doing when you are "hanging" out...like drinking or what-not...that will influence your perception about how you interact with this person.
Next time you talk on the phone and an argument starts....stop and think...what really started the fight? Was it you? was it the other person? Was it because of something you said or didn't say? If it always seems to happen one way...then try to avoid that while on the phone. And if you are intoxicated (with alcohol or drugs) while you are with this person all the time...that's probably why you get along more so in person and not so much on the phone. (when you are probably sober)
At any rate....if this keeps up though...it might be best to just give up on the relationship for awhile. Maybe one or both of you need time away to put things into perspective.
Good luck.
2007-12-05 09:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Sunshine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to handle a situation like this is just talk about it together. Other wise it is just going to keep happening like this way. Another way is find someone you can talk to all the time without always arguing with, even if it is just on-line or the phone
2007-12-05 09:25:30 · answer #2 · answered by kehwgirl78 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 08:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by bartelt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is one of you a Taurus and the other a Gemini? Or Aquarius? I'd say don't have any more of those ripping conversations. Do nothing except hang out. If you're not hanging out, don't talk.
2007-12-05 09:22:31 · answer #4 · answered by Kyle 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it could be that you are both frustrated with the fact that you guys are not an item yet or that you both just have a strange way of expressing yourselves when you miss each other. you seem to like each, so why are you playing with each other.
2007-12-05 09:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by lucy b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is true love in the first place.
2007-12-05 09:30:38 · answer #6 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-12-05 09:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by andre t 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it means you should jusst be freinds!
2007-12-05 09:24:53 · answer #8 · answered by snapcracklepop9832 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well that is strange.
2007-12-05 09:22:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋