I have recently found an online entry of my BF in a forum dated in July this year. In one line, it said that he is totally single & is looking forward to a new relationship.
The thing is - this entry to the forum is already closed which means no one can change anything or delete it.
During the period of July, we had a lot of misunderstandings because we thought each other were unfaithful as we saw each other online but we aren't online. (thanks to perhaps a technical error in the websites at that time)
Recently, as in less than a month, he always says to me that he loves me & once even said seriously that he is looking towards a future with me but to date, i have not even met any of his (close) friends & his family lives in NY. We in LA. His Granny just died in Sep & his mom wants only family members this Christmas.
He did take efforts to keep in touch with me very regularly & reassures me that he is not cheating.
Am i over-reacting?
All comments welcome. Thanks
2007-12-05 09:16:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S - we did clear up our misunderstanding & it turned out that none of us were unfaithful - as i think & it was really technical fault of the websites. Anyway, we removed our online dating profiles there i feel much happier with the level of trust. He sent me his receipt of account deletion & i sent him mine... so i guess it should be ok, right??
2007-12-05 09:18:44 · update #1
He sounds like he's playing you.
2007-12-05 09:21:55 · answer #1 · answered by Karebear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kinda had the same ****! we were dating for a while! and then i found out about this grl and huge long story. But now he says he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me..tells his fam and wants babies were getting a house the whole shabam! he prob was either un sure of you guys and keeping options open and now realised YOUR IT!! or hes a playa...only YOU can tell tho
2007-12-05 17:20:12 · answer #2 · answered by *Kimi* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are overreacting. He is not cheating on you. About not meeting his family, I would ask him about and see if maybe during spring break you guys could go visit them since his mom only wants family for christmas.
2007-12-05 17:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by mickeymousetinkerbell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea don't worry about stuff from july. it sounds like a lot has changed ever since things got cleared up. stay positive, he wants you around.
2007-12-05 17:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you're overreacting. If you like him, just relax about this stuff. You don't own each other so let each other live your lives.
2007-12-05 17:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by finra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times is not that way.Think about it and be more open.
2007-12-05 17:37:29 · answer #6 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too long to answer!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-05 17:19:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋