crush on me. We've been friends for awhile and lately he's been making a lot more sexual innuendos with me and while I'm flattered, I'm like "what am I going to do with a guy that young?" He's a great guy though and has great insight, we really do have great conversations. I'm thinking could he really be a possibility? Just curious what your opinion might be...thank you!!
2007-12-05 09:16:30 · 10 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He just wants in your pants. He doesn't want a relationship. Or he wants a mommy figure in his life. But I think if you offered he would accept.
2007-12-05 09:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by Little Miss Sunshine 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it's more a sexual attraction. That age difference is way too great, I don't think you'd be able to relate with him to much down the line. Besides, you might start to feel insecure once you hit 40+ and he's only half way to 30. I wouldn't expect a very long term thing with him at all. But if you're up for it, have a no strings fling with him! Why not.
I'm 31 now, when I was 26 I had that arrangement with a 34yr old woman. She was a single mom and I was single as well, and it was fun. If you're both single, and your both well over 18, have a ball!
2007-12-05 17:22:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a son that is 23 years old. And his father was 19 years older than me. (he lied to me about his age) We married when I was in my 20's. And we had a wonderful relationship. We were best friends until his death 3 years ago. Age is a number. Maturity and compatibility is what matters, along with the usual respect, trust, communication, etc. Being friends first is so important and it appears that you already have that. It isn't unusual for the man to be much older than the woman, so what's wrong with the woman being older? I have dated men up to 11 years younger than myself. One was and still is one that I will love and cherish forever, the other one, well let's just say good riddance. You won't know until you try. Go with what your instincts tell you....good luck to you.
2007-12-05 17:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by irish_indian_fantasy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he probably does have a crush on you but then you are old enough to be his Mother. If your looking for a fling then go for it but if his family finds out they will probably squash him like a bug and then what about your family? I know men get away with this all the time - but they are usually either big spenders or controllers looking for a "trophy" wife. If you are looking for a "toy" boy it looks as if he's all yours if you can afford him. Joan Collins has done it and so has Elizabeth Taylor.
2007-12-05 17:30:41 · answer #4 · answered by MYRA C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a sexual attraction, and it sounds like that is all he is after with you.
while i am sure you might have nice conversations, the age difference is too great to have any real similarities down the line.
2007-12-05 17:27:05 · answer #5 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch out theres a cougar on the prowl
hop on the good foot and do the bad thing with that young fella
2007-12-05 17:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid to say that he will only use you. Like you said a crush, when he gets bored he will move on.
2007-12-05 17:43:03 · answer #7 · answered by mikk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is a number. Feelings matter.Go ahead and be happy.
2007-12-05 17:38:32 · answer #8 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL AGE DOESNT MATTER BUT iF iT MAKES yOU FEEL UNCOFORTABLE THEN yOU SHOULD LET HiM KNOW...
2007-12-05 17:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe
2007-12-05 17:19:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋