what should u talk about to a girl u like?

Question

i like this girl alot. i am not much of a talker. also i don't know what would be the best thing to talk about for a good Conversation.

Answer 1

Ask questions about her, like her hobbies/sports/favorite animals...etc

Answer 2

Honestly, talking to a girl isn't something you can really generate a firm list for. It's kind of hard to just talk about something anyway unless both people are interested, and since interests vary from person to person, no list will will ever be definite.

That being said, the best approach is to start with casual things, ask her something like what she did today. Keep in mind, this is very different from how was your day, which is far from a conversation topic. The difference being, the second question almost expecets a one word answer(good) or a negative one(she complains about what went wrong).

Basically you want her to be able to describe things to you, get her talking abit until she says something you can latch onto and have and direct the conversation towards that. So if she says she had a test today, ask her how she thinks she did, If she enjoys the class, stuff like that. But make sure you don't come off as just drilling her for information. You have to make sure you participate as well. If you wind up talking about school for example, relate how she thinks math is hard to how you feel about math. Maybe tell a story about a math teach you had or something.

The important part is, avoid one word answers(they kill conversations), ask questions(they keep a conversation going and bring her into it), and talk about yourself as well(she wants to get to know you as well).

Good luck!

Answer 3

You need to talk about everything there is to talk about. The only way to really get to know a person is to ask what they like, dislike, would like to try , and in turn you need to say what you like or dislike so you both know if you have things in common. Good conversation is what ever you both enjoy talking about. I think the most important thing from both people is to be able to really listen to what the other person says. If you don't hear, talk dies.

Answer 4

Ask her some questions about herself. Girls love when guys ask them about themselves. Then, when you find something in common you automatically have something to talk about. If you need a way to start a conversation, just tell her she did well on something or other small talk.
Good luck!

Answer 5

depends on the girl..maybe you could just go up to her and ask her how she is and if she's doing something like working on a project you could ask if she needs and help. ask her about her favourite band, or what subject she has next (at school)..just small things like that. if she thinks you're alright then she'll keep talking to you so you won't need to ask her too much.

Answer 6

you shouldnt worry so much!
the man ive been with for the last 5 years first xhat up line to me was......... ' whats your favourite insect'

ha ha! so dont worry! just talk about things that have just happened, and youl find you pick up new converstion as you go

if you find it hard to start a converstion, you just probably dont have matching personalities and should try elsewhere :)
good luck!

Answer 7

ask her like little things. ask her liek hows your day and what are you up to. and thigns liek that. try not to let the converstaion die out. also just try not to be shy around or and jsut talk. talk about anythin. as in reason. dont bring uyp sex like everyone says =]

Answer 8

If you both like each other then the conversation should come naturally. Don't force it.

Answer 9

The best thing is to avoid talking about yourself. It makes it sound like you are bragging. You want to make yourself sound like you are interested in her. Talk to her and ask her about herself.

Answer 10

Anything but sex man, if she does a sport ask her about that sport, if she is in band etc...

colleges is always a good one
School
etc...just DO NOT BRING UP SEX!