I got an email from an ex recently asking to meet for lunch. I declined but the email stuck with me as if there was something that needs resolution. This guy, I found out after 2 years together, was cheating on me with numberous other men and as the puzzle pieces started to fit together I realized he was an accomplished liar as well as a cheat. I feel his contact is just more of his selfish arrogance....what advice would you give?
2007-12-05 08:18:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you go back, even as friends, you will be manipulated, lied to, just like before. Sometimes being just friends is impossible, because of all the excess baggage from before. Can you trust him ever again? If you can't trust someone, then I don't feel that you can be a good friend. Being friends doesn't mean it is only one sided, it has to be from both sides, and you can't say he respected you, or he wouldn't have done the things he did to you. Hope all goes well for you.
2007-12-05 08:36:24 · answer #1 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not a believer that all past relationships have to end on bad terms and everyone makes mistakes and poor choices. However, depending on how long ago it ended, I'd probably let it go. Why is he wanting to be friends all of a sudden? You seem like you've moved on and he should do the same.
-Knowledge24
2007-12-05 08:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get ur butt on facebook and kind for each and each of the international to work out - i'm so puzzled i do not realize why you tell me you want me unconditionally yet placed that you're in a courting with somebody else - what provides? the recent lady will comprehend he's playing video games, he will be p*ssed off at you and could no longer communicate over with you - you get to flow on
2016-10-25 12:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off google this "how many people on the planet earth" then think to yourself, is it really worth thinking about being friends with this guy when there are so many other people out there? so what if he is sorry or whatever thats fine, if he cared about you in the first place he would have thought about it in the first place before doing such messed up stuff to you. not worth your time to be stuck on the people in your past when theres so many other possiblities out there u know?
2007-12-05 08:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by nmea1zcx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could work better and closer as just friends.
Be the bigger person and learn to forgive him and maybe then you wont be so bitter
I'm not saying be his best friend but make an effort?
Good luck
2007-12-05 08:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by Along the way we fell in love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im friends with my ex.But can't help thinking if she's good with it since she still does wierd things around me.I am ok with us not being together though.
2007-12-05 08:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by Mex_tech78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget about him
there is no need to get your heart trampled again..
don't go for lucnch, ignore the e-mail
find someone else who won't cheat on you and someone who won't lie to you
2007-12-05 08:26:56 · answer #7 · answered by beecckkyyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i wouldnt do it.he cheated and lied.i had lots of guys that cheated and lied and i want nothing to do with them.
2007-12-05 08:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by lynn e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FU*K HIM!!! thats my advice
2007-12-05 08:22:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-12-05 08:22:05 · answer #10 · answered by sugardady2699 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋