so my brother is a year younger than me and his friends come over alot so ive gotten to kno them. and there is this one guy who i started liking, my brother noticed imediately and he told his friend. his friend didnt act any differently around me so i acted the same. few months passed and i got the courage to call him and we talked for an hour. i called him a few more times and he didnt answer but i just blew it off. then one night my friend and i were a bit horny so we started sending him txt messages saying wat we should do(him and me) when he realised it was me he was shocked but we ended up talkin for another hour. he never calls me and last time i called him he answered and said he couldnt talk and i havent called him since b/c i feel like he doesnt care. i dunno he knows i wanna "get wit him" obviously but i dunno wat else to do if he never answers or returns my calls. wat does it mean?
2007-12-05 06:32:11 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry, but I don't think he lieks you. He might like you as a friend, but nothing more. Here are some ways to move on A) find a different guy to like [trust me, there are plenty ; )] B) Spend time with friends and family C) Eat a quart of Ben and Jerrys. Hope this helps =]]
-felicity♥♥
2007-12-05 06:55:57 · answer #1 · answered by FelicityFrachesca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunni, it's obvious that this guy is just not interested..... and he's being polite b/c he doesn't have the guts to tell you the truth. In his mind, he is thinking... she is my friend's sister; I'll just be polite and hope she gets the unspoken message. But, you're not getting the message, even when his actions and behavior spell it out to you. Forget what he SAYS and take a long, hard look at HIS ACTIONS. That is what tells the whole truth and nothing but the truth!! He's not pursuing you, hon, doesn't that tell you a-n-y-t-h-i-n-g? When a guy is interested in you, he goes after you hot and heavy! So, you've got it all backwards; don't pursue him, that is what the guy does (if he's interested). You'll never have to phone him, drop hints for him, make excuses for him, etc., IF he cares about you. You're reading too much into this.... making false assumptions and living a fantasy.
2007-12-05 07:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I feel that because you guys were sending him nasty messages it might have scared him off or he might be liking someone else on the side and he wanted to get away from you or even your brother might have said something to him to get away from you and he was probably doing so. But teh only thing you can do is the next time you have the advantage of talking to him for an hour tell him how you feel and ask questions dont leave doubts and questions un asked.
2007-12-05 06:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by Javy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means start sniffing around other dogs...
He's either not interested, involved with someone else, or simply thinks that dating a friend's sister is "uncool." There is also the admittedly small possibility that he's gay.
You've put your baited hook in the water, and he didn't bite. Try another fish, and one not close to your brother for better luck.
2007-12-05 07:06:14 · answer #4 · answered by jcurrieii 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like someone, you like them for who they are not to just get with him. he might have the impression that thats all you want, since you texted him saying some stuff. so just continue talking to him when you can. dont call him all the time, cuz that might make you seem alittle despreate. when he comes over talk to him then, and if he seems interested after him coming over a few more times, give him a call. and letting him chase you, if he comes to that point, might not be a bad thing ;) good luck <33
2007-12-05 06:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it means hes a typical guy.Honestly I would say he's not that in to you, but the dirty messages got his interest up so he made time for you,but you don't want that kind of attention.Move on this isn't going to go anywhere unless you sleep with him and you don't want to sleep with someone whos only in to you for that. Find a guy whos really in to you then send the dirty messages.
2007-12-05 06:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by melissa f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 13:31:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking, and not to be rude, that either he doesnt like you like that, or he feels a bit awkward talking to you because your his friends sister... Maybe try calling him one more time and have a serious convorsation with him, if you dont already and get to the point where you ask HIM if he likes YOU.
2007-12-05 06:39:05 · answer #8 · answered by Kelso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means to leave him alone! He's not interested or else he would have taken you up on your sex offer. You never said that HE called YOU, so quit wasting your time and move on. Find someone who's not your brothers friend to hook up with.
2007-12-05 06:37:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been the chaser and that will never work. If he never initiated anything after being told you like him straight out, that was your sign then. Please don't continue to embarrass yourself and you must move on. Just don't do a repeat performance with someone else -- learn your lesson this time, this approach does NOT work.
2007-12-05 06:41:02 · answer #10 · answered by Fauna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋