A guy that I was once involved with came by this weekend about 2:30 am. He was suppose to come by the night before, but didn't and we were suppose to meet up earlier that night. But I didn't hear from him until a little after 2. Well basically we had only been talking for about a week. He had started telling me that he loved me and stuff so I said it back. He's never wanted to be in a commited relationship and I had reason to believe that he's been sleeping with other people. Two girls that I know of, but am not friends with. So he came over and started to kiss me. I told him not to but he did anyway. Well I guess he thought that I was going to return the "favor" but I didn't. He was noticeably disappointed but didn't say so. The next day I didn't hear from him. Until I contacted him he was somewhat brash, when I asked a couple of times if he no longer wanted to be friends he said I don't have to be his friend and hung up the phone. I called back and he didn't answer.
2007-12-05 05:51:40 · 10 answers · asked by Life is not a dress rehearsal! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I left him a message and said, "I guess you are angry because you put in a weeks worth of 'I love you's' and you gave me tongue action so you thought I was going to give you some. But I'm sorry I know of at least 2 females that you have slept with so no I'm not going to have UNPROTECTED sex with you. The way I see it any dick that's good enough for "Jenna" and "Donna" is not good enough for me. Thanks for your face last night.
Now he was just trying to use me right?
2007-12-05 05:55:17 · update #1
yes, he is a player. don't speak to him. don't let him use you. respect yourself.
2007-12-05 06:32:57 · answer #1 · answered by rodriguez m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a player. Any guy who calls at 2:30 in the morning is just looking for a booty call. He does not care about you.
2007-12-05 05:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Remember this.
A guy is just looking for a place to have sex and a girl is just looking for a reason too. He does not think he will get far with you, so go figure
2007-12-05 05:55:38 · answer #3 · answered by couv2020 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question I know people love the "chase" but when it comes down to it you are going to want a guy who wants you and someone who doesn't play games
2007-12-05 05:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by mama 2 three 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like neither one of you is ready for an adult and committed relationship. Let him go and grow up some more before getting involved with anyone again.
2007-12-05 05:55:00 · answer #5 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you even bother..... You knew him a week and he said he loved you and you know he is sleeping with other girls...... Do you want this kind of drama in your life? Leave him alone! He is not worth it.
2007-12-05 05:55:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say he just wanted you for a booty call, don't trip on him, just don't talk to him, trust me your well off without a guy like that. the whole i love you story, he just wanted to get you in bed
2007-12-05 05:56:07 · answer #7 · answered by Priscilla A. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me that's a type of a person ya wanna get rid of and stay away from.
2007-12-05 05:59:46 · answer #8 · answered by peter s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you bothering with such trash?
2007-12-05 05:55:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur weird ..
and seriousely get a bf ..
stop being a lil player girl ..
2007-12-05 05:55:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋