theres this guy that i was involved with for the past 3 years on and off...i care about him alot hes told me that he loved me and cares about me soo much yet he wont commit? im 19 he just turned 20. Im a very attractive girl, in college premed major i have a lot going for me and my friends say he might be intimidated by that? idk, well during the summer he calls and tells me he met a girl and he thinks hes in love..she was one of his friends gf's which is disloyal and shes 16!! within a week he calls me says he thinks he made a mistake and hes goin to break up w/ her, he tells me he did talks so much junk about her and tells me he wants to make it work with me and that he doesnt have any feelings for her....so 2 weeks ago i find out that they are still together?..why would he lie?..and why would he tell me everything i wouldnt have known anything, he told me she had so many pics of him on facebook up and he wanted her to take it down and tells me how i can find her on fb?? im so hurt
2007-12-05 05:18:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you have alot going for you...he is playing games, dump him, you can do better.
2007-12-05 05:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by tcr202002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like this guy really doesn't know what he wants. It sounds like he was first trying to make you jealous, then when that didn't work decided to "come home". Of course he saw how hurt you were and thought the jealousy thing may be working after all, so decided to pursue that a little more. Basically he sounds way too young for his age. If I were you, I would just dust him off my shoulders, bury my nose in the medical books and move-on. Besides, there are a lot bigger and better fish in the sea. Look around you, the guy sitting next to you in class will someday be a Doctor. Wouldn't you like to get to know him better?
2007-12-05 13:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by William R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw that jerk, dont talk to him, look at him, make any contact AT ALL. This is prbly weird comming from a guy, but if I was in the same situation I would just find someone new.
Always Remember: There are alot of Sharks in the sea, if you get one, THOW IT BACK!!!
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2007-12-05 13:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by musicmixerkyle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have too much going for you to let him drag you down! Find someone who appreciates you and wants to be with you and only you! You deserve better :) Good luck
2007-12-05 13:26:41 · answer #4 · answered by firegirl0514 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a rat. Forget about him.
2007-12-05 13:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by Fred F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋